DoubleJeopardy Posted May 26, 2017 Posted May 26, 2017 So, going back in memory, over the past two months, I was freq. called a great guy and so sweet. This was reaching out every couple of days or so and the few times she wasn't feeling well (assuming it was true), she would say the same. I am not sure what made me so sweet or a great guy in her eyes, as these are just normal things people do for each other you are trying to learn about. No? For the first few weeks of dating, I did pay for the meals and events, she didn't offer to assist in helping; which I did feel was a bit odd. She took me out for my birthday (her request), and did pay for that. A week later, she suggested we go to a comedy event, and I did state to her things are getting a bit expensive so we should go 50/50 or one of us pays for the event and the other pays for the dinner. Nothing that expensive, but a 50 + night out starts to have a toll. I used a lot of Groupons, so that helped a lot. She stated she was going to offer to pay for the comedy event (it was 52 bucks). We after that, she slept over my place the next week and then ghosted until she first said she no longer had the chem. and we shouldn't see each other any longer, to just a a short pause or break. Which, I stated it's not fair to keep me in limbo, so ciao. Here last message was I really will miss you. Just trying to piece things together so I do not have to feel so humiliated and used. This is the same woman, at the comedy club held my hand and said three times a charm for her then leaned over and kissed me. Three times a charm, as she claims she was only intimate with two other guys in her life. She's 33. Hence why I am so confused. How do you go from that to I do not feel any chemistry. A complete 180. No?
hercules22 Posted May 26, 2017 Posted May 26, 2017 its hard to know exactly whats going through this woman mind but for some reason she either holding back or not that into you as she thought she was??
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