Girlfriend drama

[Juicerjuicer]

So my girlfriend and I of 8 months have been having a lot of drama lately and tonight she gave me choice hang out with her or we're done. I told her I couldn't hang out tonight. So she said she was done and will be calling phone company to block my nunber. Then hung up. She's 30 Btw as I am. I called back and she said she's done done done done done and hung up again.

Then she texts me

 

"You need to leave me alone now more than ever

I just can't with this **** anymore

You have some nerve with all this just please leave me alone. please just can we both move on PleeeeeeeAAaaase

You go out of your our way to hurt me and I need it to stop so I'm asking as a person who you "cared" about and someone who cares for you can you just please stop doing this to me. "

 

I'm confused and don't know how to reply any help would be awesome.

[todreaminblue]

do not reply .....her childishness deserves no response....deb

[Ieris]

Don't reply, give her exactly what she wants and move on. Delete her name and number, you don't need it anymore.

[Gaeta]

Do not reply. She broke up, she wants nothing from you SO give it to her. Block her. Move on. Find someone better.

[Juicerjuicer]

But is that really what she wants? That's what I'm confused about her last text message tells me different you don't think?

[Popsicle]

Well it depends on what your drama is over? Have you been acting up?

[Juicerjuicer]

Drama just been over a lot of issues. Mainly i just don't trust her. When I called back she sounded pretty drunk. It's been an hour and half since last text. I haven't said anything yet.

[Juicerjuicer]

Is she playing a Childish game like one posted or does she mean it? I don't know

[Gaeta]

Drama just been over a lot of issues. Mainly i just don't trust her. When I called back she sounded pretty drunk. It's been an hour and half since last text. I haven't said anything yet.

 

It does NOT matter what she wants. She is a drama queen and making your life miserable. YOU make the decision that this relationship is over. You don't need her to end this relationship you can do it yourself.

[Juicerjuicer]

I guess I just feel bad. I don't know if I want it to be the end forever. I don't know what to do. So I should just never respond ever again?

[ShyLove]

Is she playing a Childish game like one posted or does she mean it? I don't know

 

Yes she is playing a childish game. She wants you to chase her and keep calling her for attention. I have been there myself but I was about 20 years old. All of the other posters are right. Don't text or call her. By not responding you are giving her a chance to calm down, think about her words and hopefully become at least a little embarrassed about how she's acting. But be warned that she will probably get really pissed when you don't respond and blow up even more before she calms down. But it's still best not to respond, especially if she's drunk. Respond tomorrow or in a few days and only if she texts you first in a calm state.

 

If you have trouble trusting her try to have a sincere grown up chat about why. If you don't think that can happen then I'd just let her go all together. It may be hard now but do you really want to deal with this for longer than you have to?

 

Best of luck and keep us updated!!

[basil67]

It seems she's getting a lot of judgement here without anyone knowing the full story. Her reaction sounded very much like this was the last straw for her. So, I'm going to lay money that there is a whole other side to the story.

 

Why don't you trust her? And how does your lack of trust manifest itself?

[GemmaUK]

She is at the end of her rope.

What has been going on that she is asking you to stop and leave her alone?