avp-95 Posted May 24, 2017 Posted May 24, 2017 I went on a second date with this great girl. We spent a long time together, there weren't any awkward silences and we had loads to talk about. I wanted to kiss her goodbye, and I would have if she had made it possible. I felt like she sort of turned away, and the last thing I wanted to do was force it/put pressure on her and get rejected. Especially as I am a girl myself and not used to making the first move. Most of my dates have been with guys. But you know when you use body language to invite someone to kiss you, like you make it possible, and she didn't. I felt disappointed. But she messaged me straight after we parted saying she had wanted to kiss me but was too shy, and that she had such a good time she had and to say when I got home etc. We texted a bit more on the way home along the same lines, and I sent the last one. But the following day, and the day after, I haven't had a reply. We really opened up to each other on the date. She seemed to be having fun, was generous, surprised how much time had passed, we were laughing and flirting with each other, and she'd made a big effort to travel to see me. Before the end of the date we spoke about me visiting her next, I said I'd really like to if she was up for it, and she said was, and would have to see when she was free. She's so cute, we had a fair bit of eye contact and brief body contact felt good. I don't know how to play it. I know she's a bit shy and anxious. I don't want to seem desperate.
Sara1989 Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I went on a second date with this great girl. We spent a long time together, there weren't any awkward silences and we had loads to talk about. I wanted to kiss her goodbye, and I would have if she had made it possible. I felt like she sort of turned away, and the last thing I wanted to do was force it/put pressure on her and get rejected. Especially as I am a girl myself and not used to making the first move. Most of my dates have been with guys. But you know when you use body language to invite someone to kiss you, like you make it possible, and she didn't. I felt disappointed. But she messaged me straight after we parted saying she had wanted to kiss me but was too shy, and that she had such a good time she had and to say when I got home etc. We texted a bit more on the way home along the same lines, and I sent the last one. But the following day, and the day after, I haven't had a reply. We really opened up to each other on the date. She seemed to be having fun, was generous, surprised how much time had passed, we were laughing and flirting with each other, and she'd made a big effort to travel to see me. Before the end of the date we spoke about me visiting her next, I said I'd really like to if she was up for it, and she said was, and would have to see when she was free. She's so cute, we had a fair bit of eye contact and brief body contact felt good. I don't know how to play it. I know she's a bit shy and anxious. I don't want to seem desperate. You said she has not replied to your message in the last two days? if you not been talking, I would shoot her another text just to gauge her interest. On the kissing, if you do get another date then you have be the aggressor and kiss her. She has basically now given you permission.
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 Not everybody kisses on early dates. It is usually a sign that some body likes you but it could just mean they think you are hot & they are horny. Your shy date is probably just shy. Press gently but don't force things.
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