Author Bonjour295 Posted May 25, 2017 Author Posted May 25, 2017 I didn't say I wasn't sexually attracted to her, all I said is that this hit me like a ton of bricks. I never thought of her like that before, but I might have been repressing, I'm realizing. I don't know.
frus69 Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I didn't say I wasn't sexually attracted to her, all I said is that this hit me like a ton of bricks. I never thought of her like that before, but I might have been repressing, I'm realizing. I don't know. hmm you literally said "I didn't think I was sexually attracted to her, no." Well ok, so let me ask you again, are you sexually attracted to her now? Do you want to kiss her, hold her, have sex with her?! Imagine she is back now, what would you want to do to her? Talk? Hang out? or do you want to touch her and get physical too? 1
Author Bonjour295 Posted May 25, 2017 Author Posted May 25, 2017 I think I had blocked it out for so long that I forced myself not to think of her like that. And I said I didn't THINK I was sexually attracted to her. Now that this has happened, I have different feelings than I realized before. Maybe I was attracted to her and didn't realize it. Is that even possible. 1
frus69 Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I think I had blocked it out for so long that I forced myself not to think of her like that. And I said I didn't THINK I was sexually attracted to her. Now that this has happened, I have different feelings than I realized before. Maybe I was attracted to her and didn't realize it. Is that even possible. You didn't answer my question. What would you want to do to her if she was standing in front of you right now? Do you just want to talk? or can you imagine yourself kissing her and having sex with her? Does this idea get your aroused? Or it doesn't make you feel a thing?
Scarlett.O'hara Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I'm very confused.. In your last thread you wrote as the woman being rejected, now your writing as the guy doing the rejecting. Something doesn't add up. People on the forum want to help you, but pretending to be the other person isn't going to help because you can't truly know what they are thinking and feeling on the inside, so any advice is going to be useless.
flysolo Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I don't understand why you think he has to be sexually attracted to her to give dating a chance. The sexually attracted part can come after the first date. Anyways I'm done helping this guy. After all the advice given, he's still clueless and trapped in his vortex of his own insecure thoughts.
frus69 Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I don't understand why you think he has to be sexually attracted to her to give dating a chance. The sexually attracted part can come after the first date. . The only difference between friendship and relationship is sex so I have to ask if he is ever sexually attracted. And if he wasn't, I can't see how one date can magically change everything. It's not like they never hang out one on one before. If this guy can't get turned on by imagining having sex with her I honestly don't think he has romantic feelings. He was hurt but he also found himself attracted to a few other girls, and she is not one of them. So it's not like he lost this ability. Maybe shes just not the right girl
dumbass2 Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I'm confused. In your last thread you started you were the woman and now you're the man?
kendahke Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I'm confused. In your last thread you stated you were the woman and now you're the man? Oh my! What a quagmire.
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