Girl he liked is so much prettier than me

[Niki0904]

Ok here we go...

Since I met my boyfriend I had a feeling that I'm not his usual type. I even told him about this feeling and he said he never liked the skinny and flat chested women that used a lot of makeup.

So one day he mentioned that there was a girl living at his house for a few weeks because she had some family drama. I know him and his facial expressions so I asked if she was pretty and if anything happened.

He said no, and that she never really saw her properly as she was wearing huge amounts of make up. He also said that she admitted that she only cooked for her ex if he bought her something.Ok fair enough I let it like that. Until he got a new phone and left the old one at home. I saw messages to his friend asking for her number and that he thinks that she's so pretty and nice.

He asked her out while she lived there but she said no because she needs time. Then he asked her out again but she said that the answer is the same.

So when I asked if he likes women like her why did he lie? When I confronted him he said he felt sorry for her and he wanted to show her that life isn't all that bad and that they met a year later in a group of friends and that he didn't even speak to her and found her ugly.

Now I also found messages to his best friend about meeting her a year later and that friend asked if he touched her knickers he said no I didn't even speak to her. Then the friend said that's a shame she's really cute.Then my boyfriend said yes she still is but if she doesn't want to have sex then I can't do anything about it.

The worst thing is that I read some messages about me as well. Shortly after we met his friend was asking questions and basically he said: she's ok, I don't think that I will fall in love, it's been too long I have to have sex with her just for the sake of her epic tits.

So he's saying she wasn't even his type but yet she deserved so much more respect when he talked about her. I feel like he would prefer somebody with her looks and my personality and I don't want to be a compromise. He really put me down as a not good enough chick when he talked to his friend. Am I right to be upset about this?

[kendahke]

It's not a matter of rights.

 

Feelings just are... If you're angry, then that's all you need to go on.

 

Seems you found out that he was tolerating you because of body parts.

 

I would say that your relationship with this guy is done.

[d0nnivain]

I think you are creating drama where there doesn't need to be.

 

 

Stop comparing yourself to another woman. Even though he asked her out, he's now in a relationship with you. Focus on that & celebrate it.

 

 

I know it can be hard. One of my EXs really liked curvy zaftig women with large breasts. I'm flat chested. It used to play on my every insecurity but I could usually talk myself down by reminding myself that he was with me because I had more to offer then just a hot body.

[TheAntiHero]

So, he asked her out?

 

Haha, why are you still around this guy?

[preraph]

You're the one with the epic -- you know, not this skinny girl who isn't giving him the time of day. However, him saying right up front he's not falling in love with you ,well, he's not your keeper, that's all. If you are having fun with him, have fun until you meet someone who IS wanting to fall in love with you and then take your epic tatas and dump his butt.