How should I feel??

[Coleworld432]

Okay so me and my girl arent the type to hang out with other couples and for the past 3 weekends we have been hanging with 3 of my old friends and we talk 1 is single and 2 are in a relationship about REAL conversations all the time but lst night for some reason she has got so comfortable with them to the point where she indirectly asked another couple questions about some serious pivital areguments and issues in our relationship without using us as a example but in my mind I know that we have had the issues remind you she has only hung out with them 3 times and has decided that she wants to disclose things about our relationship but indirectly and we had a full out argument about it and I am not the type to let anyone into our business and she put me into a uncomfortable position she claimed that she just wanted to know another couples position but I feel she doesn't know them and should have kept certain things under the wraps especially if one argument was recent and brought back up indirectly..... i was wondering do I have the right to feel any type of way because she opened our relationship issues completely ((indirectly)) ? Also when brought up she said i was wrong because if she is going to hang out with them she is going to be open and be able to share and if she cant be herself in that manner she dont want to do it at all

Edited May 22, 2017 by Coleworld432

[MountainGirl111]

What is she, some sort of dip wad that doesn't have a clue. Sheesh. Or maybe she doesn't know how smart/perceptive you are that you know EXACTLY what she is referring to and don't appreciate her bringing it up with others like that. Well, I guess one good thing is she brought up in front of you instead of behind your back. She didn't exactly badmouth you, but you felt she aired your dirty laundry no less. I think I'd talk to her about it. Call her on it.

[GemmaUK]

What are the issues and what are you both doing to resolve them?

 

Perhaps it was an indirect way to bring things to the fore to get you talking?

 

It doesn't sound like she bad mouthed you nor said these things were related to the two of you in any way. My thought of her saying things with you there was to get opinions and open something up discussion wise.