hyakoo Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 I unfriended my ex on facebook 4 months ago. He insisted that we stayed friends and although I didn't want to at first I decided to give friendship a try, but it didn't work out so I deleted him off all social media. We ran into each other a couple times cause of mutual friends and I generally ignored him. The first time we spoke again, I was with my friends, and he sat with us for a while and even took a snapchat of us. After that whenever we see each other we'd say hi, and even hung out alone several times. The last time i saw him was a month ago and he was kinda distant and dismissive that day. But then he took another snapchat of me, saying that he'd only send it to his best friend (who's also my friend), but another friend told me later that it was actually on his story. Then yesterday, he sent me a friend request out of nowhere. It's just so random and odd given that he didn't add me after the few times we hung out. And especially since he was cold and distant the last time I saw him. I'm also not comfortable with how he's putting our "friendship" on social media. I think that's too public especially since we have a lot of mutual friends, and people gossip.
stillafool Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 If you aren't comfortable with it delete him again. Do what makes you comfortable. Maybe he thinks you guys are over it and finally at the stage where you can be friends. Obviously for you that is not the case so don't be his friend.
Altair0770 Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 There's a lot he may be thinking, but I suspect an ego boost. If you REALLY want him on your Facebook, you can add him. Otherwise I'd ignore it, and I'd tell him to stop posting snapchats. It seems like an ego boost or a way to relieve guilt. The choice is yours. If you're posting here, you still have feelings for him I'm assuming. Best to distance yourself as much as possible, and ignore all these little breadcrumb moments if you want reconciliation.
preraph Posted May 23, 2017 Posted May 23, 2017 He could be seeing just for his ego if you still want contact with him and will take him up on the request. Or he could be thinking maybe it's okay to just be friends. Since you are still emotional and it's rattled you, I would say deny his friend request.
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