Beachgrl486 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Why is it out of nowhere a guy you were talking to kind of or just hanging out with who was very much into you just stops calling? I mean he was into me more than I was to him and we really werent anything but he just stop calling and wont return calls? I didnt even do anything...honestly. I just do not understand guys sometimes. He made it seem like he liked me a lot. last time we talked he wanted to do something the next night and then I called and his phone was off for 2 days and when I got in touch with him he said he had to rush out of town for a few days and help a friend or something like that and I was like ok thats cool. Told him I would call him later and didnt because i went out with friends...called him earlier and he totally was acting weird, like he didnt want to talk, he was like can i call you later and I was like yea sure and he hasnt and I just know he wont. Honestly I do not really care just kind of bummed because he was a nice guy and could have been friends...I just dont know what happened...he is totally like ignoring me now.
Merin Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Look at what you've said regarding him though... 1) He was more into you than you were into him 2) You blew him off and didn't call him when you said you would 3) You thought the 2 of you could be FRIENDS but you also said he seemed INTO YOU So with that I would conclude that this Guy knew you might be good to go with being his FRIEND but he wasn't/isn't looking to add to his Friend collection so he decided not to put any more effort into trying to persue soemthing with you.... My 2 cent's
Author Beachgrl486 Posted August 2, 2005 Author Posted August 2, 2005 I know that is what makes sense but for some reason I just do not think that is what it is..last week we were going to do something...he dissapeared for 2 days and came back in town and I was like "where have you been" I mean we kind of had plans and he said what i talked about earlier in the previous post...ever since then he has just been too weird...I honestly dont think I made him act this way...I feel it is something else just do not know what else it could be.
J dub Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Guys do this sometimes, they come on REEEEAAALLLLY strong and then all the sudden, "poof!" gone. Just try to take it easy and dont call him anymore. The ball is in his court, he knows how to get a hold of you if he wants to. At this point there's not much else you can do besides scare him away by calling too many times you know?
blue_eyes18 Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 I feel like a dumb ass. I already called this guy that I have been dating on and off for a year. I think it is just through now, I mean, I think I have already changed his mind, I odn't know if it will ever be the same. I feel like I love him but he is on drugs and is completely ignoring me now. I don't know, I can just tell you to NOT call him, don't, sit on your hands if you have to, lol! My problem is always been when he does call me back, I end up going back to him and get left again or something. After this time, I don[t know what I will do with him, he is not calling me and told me to leave him alone. How ****ty, after he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and all kinds of ****, then turns around and acted like we have never had anything really the past year. Except for he said he had feelings for me one time, but he is just trying to butter me up for next time, if there is a next time and he wants to come back or whatever the hell he does. I feel like such an idiot though for getting all upset over him and letting him do this a whole year and look what it's turned into! He was drunk and called me a whore, and then other times he just says I am such a good girl and all kinds of ****. The drugs really make him act stupid, and all my friends say I can do so much better that it makes them sick. I can't figure out why I am like in love with this guy. I miss him so much, and I didn't know he would do this. I thought he was honest and stuff and really meant well or I would have told him to **** off for good the first time that he came crawling back a year ago. Oh well, who ever know. Back to my point though, don't call and don't cry to him. Just see what happens. Although it seems like the more I act like I don't care, the harder he laid it on me. It's like it just f***** me up even more. He would just try even harder to make me want him again when I would tell him I just wanna be friends. What's the deal. Do you think it's the drugs? I know this is someone else;s thread, but it's the same topic as what I am going through. Why do guys do that? I am not gonna feel sorry for him anymore. EVEr! I will tell him to screw off next time cause I know he doesn't feel the same way I feel for him. I am so pissed at this ass wipe. Sorry! I guess what I have been trying to say is: You know, if he is playing all those games right now, the best thing you could prolly do is tell him to buzz off and find someone that you don't have to play games with alot! Ok, I'm done. lol
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