roynatasha70 Posted May 20, 2017 Posted May 20, 2017 So I am in an art class at my university and there is a Japanese boy whom I have noticed looking at me a few times. He's a really shy and sweet guy and it seems he doesn't really have a lot of experience with females being talkative or friendly around him so he's always a bit quiet. I think he has issues with language as well since the Japanese people in my class aren't really talking in English and tend to either stay quiet or they hang out with their fellow Asians and speak in their native language. Well, the first time after our first class, he started a conversation with me. The next time, he was hanging around but was quiet and I was busy talking to my friends so we had no chance to talk. We also met at the welcome party and I saw him look at me a couple of times but I ignored him. The next time, after class he was walking with me but not saying a word until I started speaking to him and he was then beginning to laugh and smile. It was his birthday last week and I met him at the University and gave him a hug and the birthday wishes and he was so nervous, it was actually funny. I was with another female friend of mine and he looked blacked out and had forgotten that it was his birthday that day lmao. The next day while I was giving him a card and a cake I got for him, he seemed a bit normal and then he said he was glad I remembered his birthday. The next art class, he was quiet again and we didn't get much chance to talk until the end when we were leaving and he was quiet again until he started talking and asked me about my other courses, if I ve ever been to Japan, done Skiing and how I should try it since its fun. We parted at the station but i really don't understand him. I am not sure but does he like me?
preraph Posted May 20, 2017 Posted May 20, 2017 He is probably thrilled you're being friendly but he sounds very inexperienced and frightened, so maybe he doesn't know what to do, but he better figure it out because you can't be expected to continue to make all the moves with no encouragement in the form of a date from him. 1
smackie9 Posted May 21, 2017 Posted May 21, 2017 (You)Suggest you guys hangout sometime and give him your number....maybe ask him out on a date and if he says yes he likes you. I agree with the post on your other thread.....he just sounds painfully shy and scared.
Inya Posted May 21, 2017 Posted May 21, 2017 Hi there I suggest you to learn something about japanese culture (youtube is just fine), especially about their behaviour, expressing feelings etc. Im shure you will understand much more. You probably shocked him with a hug. In Japan hugging is limited to family members and very close friends but even that is not common in public. If you really like this guy do the homework. Good luck 1
smackie9 Posted May 21, 2017 Posted May 21, 2017 Hi there I suggest you to learn something about japanese culture (youtube is just fine), especially about their behaviour, expressing feelings etc. Im shure you will understand much more. You probably shocked him with a hug. In Japan hugging is limited to family members and very close friends but even that is not common in public. If you really like this guy do the homework. Good luck And yet at one time they had vending machines and back alley xxx shops that sold used girls panties....until the police cracked down on it. lol
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