Author scv88 Posted May 22, 2017 Author Posted May 22, 2017 So how did the conversation go? The conversation went great! I told him that I was happy with how things were until he mentioned the words "taking it slow" and that has made me really think - and probably overthink - about it. I asked what prompted him to bring it up and if I did anything to imply that I was wanting more. He said that I didn't do anything and not to worry, he was just talking about it more as a "hey it's been over a month, let's check in" on how we were feeling. As long as I don't over think it, I'll be fine. And I really am happy with how things are. 1
Gaeta Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 We may want to see each other more often than once a week, but I don't think that's rushing anything. Im not askinf for him to meet my friends and family, I'm not ready to jump into bed with him, and I'm not asking for a title. To me, that is slow.. we all have different ideas of slow, which is why I started the thread. There we go. We now know what it means to take things slow for you but do you know what it means to him? It's still unclear to me what it means to him. Sounds to me that you are doing thing pretty normal. Normal people take their time to introduce family and they still don't call it taking things slow. It took 5 months for me to introduce my bf to my parents and I am not at all a type of women to take things slow.
Gaeta Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 How long have you been dating? In 6 months will you still be happy if he only sees you once a week? and he says he told you he wanted to take things slow? The importance in a relationship is it needs to slowly escalate. If it stops escalating and your find yourself in the same spot in 6 months then that's not taking things slow. That's being stagnant.
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