beverly Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 need to vent a bit , tried being nice to ex but think nc would be better, having children in the marriage we have had some contact but we now have discussed what was wrong in relationship, but we were not ready to try again im not stable enough and he isnt over new gf, i would like to try again but things have happend this week that have made us have a major setback, like i said he wasn't over gf and has tried relationship again do i wait or do i just get on with my life thinking about my children and my self , living in close proximtly with ex . i have started divorce percidings but dont now what to do i think he doesnt want to be on his own and i wasnt ready to recommit to him and him not to me so thats why he went back to gf, i have been told by his family that he wants to come back but the circumstances over last few days have upset him (cant go into them to long)children are now very confused , i have never ever lied to my exhas i have never needed to so what he is upset about he thinks i lied about the circumstances and i didnt , he has to sort himself out we are both going councilling it might help i am holding out hope
ReluctantRomeo Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 Counselling saved the marriage of a close friend.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 Originally posted by beverly I have started divorce percidings Not all divorces end in divorce.. Counseling can save a marriage
beverly Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 the councilling we are having is not for the marriage but personnel reasons mine because i have been depressed and his because he is stressed and ends up having panic attacks, i thought i was stronger than i was i now know that i wasn't it ended up nearly with me gone so for now i am just concentrating on myself and children i have to go councilling again in a few weeks as she doesn't have any appointments this week i ho[pe talking to her will help and not make me more vunabrel as I'm going over several issues including the death of some of my mother my brother and my dad over the last 36 yrs, thank you for your response
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