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Could this be an excuse to see his ex?


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My boyfriends ex girlfriend who he dated for 3 years before me messaged him a pic of an old shirt. He asked her if he could pick it up from her house. They live in the same neighborhood and I saw the text messages when I was on his phone the other day. This wouldn't be the first time he went to her house while dating me. He went to her house a couple of months ago with his friends and I only

found out because he was talking about it to a mutual friend and I over heard the conversation. Should I be worried he still has feelings for her and the only reason he wants to pick up a shirt is to see her? They broke up almost two years ago and why would he want the shirt now? Does he miss the shirt that much?

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It seems odd. She could mail him the shirt. He may go back to her but it's not like you can prohibit him from going.

 

 

Keep your eyes & ears open. If you suspect something dig further.

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They broke up two years ago and now he wants to retrieve some random shirt?

 

Yes, it very much sounds like he's looking for a reason to see her. Add to this the fact that he went to her place rather recently and didn't mention it to you, and I think you're right to be concerned.

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Yes, I agree this is suspicious. It seems like he wants to see her.

If he tells you about it, it will not be so suspicious.

The fact that he hides is not good.

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