Shikes Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 I was watching videos on youtube, after how I was treated, I feel like I shouldn't even write this but it is bothering me and I have nowhere else to release this. I had an email from his friend, telling me how unlikely it would be he is single and to delete his contact. I have not been in contact with him, but he has been on some sites trying to help me in school. So I email him and explain the damage he has caused to me. I feel kind of sluggish moving forward. I picture him with his new girlfriend and he has his foot on her and rhey are playful and happy, and I explained to him early in the part how hard it would be because I only wanted him I think i asked him for nc so on some social media forums, he set up some accounts to hurt me. It's a long story. I just feel horrible.
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 I'm sorry you are hurting. I assume this was an early in life relationship since you mentioned school. You don't ask somebody for NC. You take affirmative steps to cut them out of your life. You delete all his points of contact -- phone, email, social media etc. & you stop accepting help in school from him. Ask any other class mate or pay a tutor.
Author Shikes Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 He dumped me so it was hard and what took me so long, is that I tortured myself. I found his friend on fb and seen some of her friends. He kept telling me to block him but at first I did not want him to leave. I knew I had to so you right. I did this to myself. Thanks for replying. Now how to heal?
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