Lorenz Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 I recently started to notice a girl at school that I would really like to get to know. It all started when I was walking down the hallway at school and could feel that someone was staring at me. The thing is.. I'm used to girls looking at me so I didn't look at first, but when she didn't take her look away after a few seconds of staring, I decided to look at her too. She looked me in the eyes for a second and then looked away really quick. A few days later (today) she walked past me and tried to look me in the eyes and even turned her head to look at me, but I didn't look because I'm stupid. Sounds like she might be interested, am I right? So the question is, how do I approach her in the best possible way? I'd like to get her number and eventually go out with her in the future. But I'm not sure it's a good idea to go up to her and introduce myself and ask for her number as I haven't spoken to her before. I don't think many girls would give out their number to somebody they've never talked to before. Any suggestions? Age: 17. I'm guessing she's around that age as well.
Titanll Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 I recently started to notice a girl at school that I would really like to get to know. It all started when I was walking down the hallway at school and could feel that someone was staring at me. The thing is.. I'm used to girls looking at me so I didn't look at first, but when she didn't take her look away after a few seconds of staring, I decided to look at her too. She looked me in the eyes for a second and then looked away really quick. A few days later (today) she walked past me and tried to look me in the eyes and even turned her head to look at me, but I didn't look because I'm stupid. Sounds like she might be interested, am I right? So the question is, how do I approach her in the best possible way? I'd like to get her number and eventually go out with her in the future. But I'm not sure it's a good idea to go up to her and introduce myself and ask for her number as I haven't spoken to her before. I don't think many girls would give out their number to somebody they've never talked to before. Any suggestions? Age: 17. I'm guessing she's around that age as well. And just how to you plan to solve this conundrum?
preraph Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Here's how Bill Clinton and Hillary first spoke: "If you're gonna keep looking at me and I'm gonna keep looking back, we at least ought to know each other's names. I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you?" Can you find her on social media and friend her? I guess that's the typical way. If you have it in you, you should just go up to her next time you see her and say "Seen you around at school. I'm Jim." (whatever your name is.) Or if you feel weird doing that, you HAVE to at least start saying "Hi" to her when you see her looking or wave at her. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Next time you see her anywhere just say Hi. Build from there. 1
Author Lorenz Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 Here's how Bill Clinton and Hillary first spoke: "If you're gonna keep looking at me and I'm gonna keep looking back, we at least ought to know each other's names. I'm Hillary Rodham, who are you?" Can you find her on social media and friend her? I guess that's the typical way. If you have it in you, you should just go up to her next time you see her and say "Seen you around at school. I'm Jim." (whatever your name is.) Or if you feel weird doing that, you HAVE to at least start saying "Hi" to her when you see her looking or wave at her. That's a good one actually.. Yes I could friend her on social media but I'm not going to do it. I haven't even spoken to her, and adding her on social media would then just be creepy and weird. At least that's how I see it. Well, I have been thinking of just saying "hi" to her when she looks at me. But it feels kind of lame to just say "hi" and nothing else. Still better than just staring at each other. Next time you see her anywhere just say Hi. Build from there. Okay. Would it be too straightforward to ask if she wants to do something on Saturday? Or ask for her number? Of course I'd ask this after introducing myself first.
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Okay. Would it be too straightforward to ask if she wants to do something on Saturday? Or ask for her number? Of course I'd ask this after introducing myself first. Yes that would be too straightforward. Post college that would be the ideal approach. At 17 you will scare her. You are a stranger. Unless the request is does she want to go to a school sponsored event, spend some time talking to her before you suggest an actual date.
Author Lorenz Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 Yes that would be too straightforward. Post college that would be the ideal approach. At 17 you will scare her. You are a stranger. Unless the request is does she want to go to a school sponsored event, spend some time talking to her before you suggest an actual date. Ah I see.. I had a feeling it would be too straightforward. The problem is that there's only a couple of weeks left of school, which means that there isn't that much time left for me to talk to her and get to know her. If I don't get her number, there's no way we can stay in touch during the summer unfortunately.
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 You still have more than 2 weeks left of school. Be cool. Only because you are in high school, search for her on social media. Add her to your friends / followers & interact that way. (Again post college you get to know somebody off line before you add them). Before school lets out, with the built in deadline of the term ending, you can ask for her # sooner rather than later so you can stay in touch.
Author Lorenz Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 You still have more than 2 weeks left of school. Be cool. Only because you are in high school, search for her on social media. Add her to your friends / followers & interact that way. (Again post college you get to know somebody off line before you add them). Before school lets out, with the built in deadline of the term ending, you can ask for her # sooner rather than later so you can stay in touch. Sounds good. I will make sure to strike up a conversation with her before I add her on social media though. 2
victoria88 Posted May 21, 2017 Posted May 21, 2017 I recently started to notice a girl at school that I would really like to get to know. It all started when I was walking down the hallway at school and could feel that someone was staring at me. The thing is.. I'm used to girls looking at me so I didn't look at first, but when she didn't take her look away after a few seconds of staring, I decided to look at her too. She looked me in the eyes for a second and then looked away really quick. A few days later (today) she walked past me and tried to look me in the eyes and even turned her head to look at me, but I didn't look because I'm stupid. Sounds like she might be interested, am I right? So the question is, how do I approach her in the best possible way? I'd like to get her number and eventually go out with her in the future. But I'm not sure it's a good idea to go up to her and introduce myself and ask for her number as I haven't spoken to her before. I don't think many girls would give out their number to somebody they've never talked to before. Any suggestions? Age: 17. I'm guessing she's around that age as well. Try to find some common friends to introduce you to her. This is a natural way to know someone. From what you wrote here how she is looking at you: YES SHE really LIKES YOU! p.s. I am much more than 17 years old and I am also looking at someone I fell in love with. My progress was when I introduced myself and invited him to have a cup of coffee with me. Sometimes in life people need to get over their shyness (when they are in love).
smackie9 Posted May 21, 2017 Posted May 21, 2017 Give her a deep stare as she walks by and give her a smirk. Then do the turn and look back at her, look her up and down and do a slight nod of approval. Be confident.
victoria88 Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 Just one explanation: One look or 2 does not mean usually much. Looking at someone for long time (well my example is looking for someone for 1 year and a half) then it means a lot. I would say perhaps looking at someone for a month is the minimum for some people to say they fell for you...
coolheadal Posted May 22, 2017 Posted May 22, 2017 I recently started to notice a girl at school that I would really like to get to know. It all started when I was walking down the hallway at school and could feel that someone was staring at me. The thing is.. I'm used to girls looking at me so I didn't look at first, but when she didn't take her look away after a few seconds of staring, I decided to look at her too. She looked me in the eyes for a second and then looked away really quick. A few days later (today) she walked past me and tried to look me in the eyes and even turned her head to look at me, but I didn't look because I'm stupid. Sounds like she might be interested, am I right? So the question is, how do I approach her in the best possible way? I'd like to get her number and eventually go out with her in the future. But I'm not sure it's a good idea to go up to her and introduce myself and ask for her number as I haven't spoken to her before. I don't think many girls would give out their number to somebody they've never talked to before. Any suggestions? Age: 17. I'm guessing she's around that age as well. Boy your so lucky now when I was your age I was shy but I remember the same thing your going through. Today stop and look at her and say, I know you interested in me as much as I am interested in you. What are you doing after school? Get the answer there, then say want to go grab something eat. Then talk to her like you would like to know all about her first before you open your mouth. Get to know her then you can say things like yeah I like that too, yeah same here, yeah wow your really into that too. Things like that. I would first find out if this girl as a boy friend first. Try this method, stop and say hi what is your name? Then say your name. Then find out about anyone else, so your going to see that new movie playing at the movies you just say the movies name with your boy friend? If she says no and I don't have a boy friend then you can follow the above to the T. Good luck and just be at your best with her. Don't mess-up, never know how long you'll be with her might to the end of your life or it might be just short-term. Think ahead always plan for the best not the worst. Always be happy with her never look upset or sad. Play it right, play it cool. Next time bring her one flower, but sneak a hint to her what type of flowers she likes when you first talk to her while grabbing some food. Make sure you have money with or plastic card if you got one yet. Most of all get her cell number, email etc.. The rest you can play it by ear.
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