eddpad Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 My gf of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago on grounds that she's young and wants to have friends and have fun. She's only 19 and I know she is really young and this breakup could mean alot of things. She doesn't want to be a in a relationship right now, she wants to go out and party or probably she wants to see what else is out there. The night she broke up with me she told me "I just want some time to myself, just wait." I talked to her about 3 times since the breakup and last we talked I told her I was going out with a friend. And of course she was curious so she asked and I told her she was my friend from work. She kinda sounded a bit put off by it. And now she just finished calling me, didn't pick up. I don't have any temptation to talk to her because honestly, what would it be about? "Waht's up, how you been, what's new, really! that's cool!, ok great talking to you! bye!" U just don't know if she's still itnerested in me but would rather do the **** she's doing because I guess the grass is greener there. Even if she came back, I wouldn't take her right away. I think she really needs to realize how good it is to find someon you can feel good with ona couch at home ona friday night watching movie, sure ti sounds boring, but it feels good, and maybe she can't appreciate it. What do you think are her motives for calling me? If she called me after not talking to her for one month, it' safe to assume she'll be calling at elast once a month from now on? But why?
ReluctantRomeo Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by eddpad What do you think are her motives for calling me? If she called me after not talking to her for one month, it' safe to assume she'll be calling at elast once a month from now on? But why? She may not even know herself. Curiosity. Friendship after the romance has gone. Or a desire to rekindle the romance. All are possible. Even if she came back, I wouldn't take her right away. Good strategy. I think she really needs to realize how good it is to find someon you can feel good with ona couch at home ona friday night watching movie, sure ti sounds boring, but it feels good, and maybe she can't appreciate it. Word.
blue16 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 eddpad, you have a good head on your shoulders, you have nothing to worry about. You are doing the things people SHOULD be doing after their breakups, without even having to do them against your will. That is true integrity, self-confidence, and self-respect. Most people in this situation would pickup a phone call from their ex in a second (but they shouldn't) and you don't even desire to answer it. People in your type of situation should model their behaviour after you. Just keep doin what you doin, cuz you're doing fine.
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