gsessions Posted May 18, 2017 Posted May 18, 2017 My boyfriend of a year has smoked weed everyday for two years straight. Last week he decided on his own that he was ready to quit because he needed to get his life straight because it was not benefiting him. He cut ties with some of his fraternity brothers that would be a bad influence on him at the moment. He had the common withdrawal symptoms of weed and was struggling with those but was managing. I've been super supportive and positive for the last week trying to be as encouraging as I can. A couple days ago we were going on a two hour drive to go to where I'm from and stay a couple days. Before we left I noticed a straw that had been cut in his room and questioned him about it. He said he had no idea how it got there but I didn't believe him. Then he got upset and said how am I suppose to do this if you don't trust me. Then he said I promise I haven't taken anything and was upset again because I couldn't trust him. Halfway on our trip we were at the gas station and I noticed blue in his nose and confronted him about that and he he still kinda tried to play it off but finally admitted to snorting an adderall. I told him to turn around and that I was done with our relationship. He then began to cry and say that he couldn't loose me and said that he didn't tell me because he didn't want me to be disappointed in him that he couldn't do it. He said I had been so happy and helpful the last few days and he did not want to admit what he had done. I still said I was done and he countinued to cry and be upset the rest of the drive. I was really angry and upset and still am but I don't want to leave him. His apology and confession felt very genuine but I feel like I can't trust him anymore and I keep thinking about how he lied and tried to say it hurt that I didn't trust him. He's always told me stuff in the past and I've had no reason not to trust him until now.
superdub Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Yeah. Get away from him. Anyone lying about their drug situation to their significant other is not in a position to be in a healthy relationship in the first place. 1
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