My boyfriend and I do not live together but he expects me to cook, clean do laundry .

[May Lee]

I don't live with my boyfriend , he loves about an hour and a half away, I stay with him a few times a week, and when I will cook for him and clean up, clean his house, do his laundry, I also help him with making phone calls to pay bills and other tasks. He gets mad at me if he he there for a few days with out me and his laundry is lot done or the kitchen has gotten messy, he will make comments like he has a girlfriend that does not do anything or is lazy..... any feedback? I don't know what to do about this, I have my own place, my own bills and a job, I don't have the time to go back and forth and take care of him the way he wants all the time, I have mentioned us getting a place together and he says I'm

Looking for a guy to take care of me..... I just don't know what to think, any advice here ?

 

Thank you

[basil67]

What happened to your self esteem May? Do you really think you can't do better than this?

[anika99]

Seriously? You don't know what to do about this? You dump him and go find yourself a man. Or do you want to be tied down to a childish boy instead of having an actual adult partner?