Girl I've had a crush on for awhile seems to have taken interest in me, am I right?

[Johnnyg1997]

Back story we're both 19 and in community college. She was in one of my classes last year and we never spoke ever until a month ago.

 

We exchanged numbers for a project and didn't talk for a few weeks it was her idea and she put her number in my phone She was the one to ask me to be her partner. Were also in another class together and she took this online test to add me and give me the answers. She messaged saying sorry for adding me but she lost my number because her phone reset. I have asked female friends of mine and they think she just made that an excuse to add me on snapchat. They said she obviously saved my sc incase she ever lost my number. Project was finished weeks ago, the "project" was defining two terms and presenting it to the class for 30 measly seconds. We're in community college. She added me on snapchat weeks after the project was finished.

 

Keep in mind we have no mutual friends on snapchat and no mutual anything really. So she must of saved my username? I'm not sure what she wants, I like her but don't want to push boundaries. If she wants to be friends that's ok too. I feel like there's been subtle signs, her asking me to be her partner and we did this group activity recently and she laughed at almost everything I said. Also when I get up and then go back to walk to my seat I notice she glances at me.

 

If she had no interest in either surely she wouldn't have added me on sc? We have only spoken a few times before (starting a month ago). I'm not trying to overlook this, I find this girl really pretty and don't want to mess it up.

[preraph]

You should have asked her out as soon as she gave you her phone number, and you better get with it, and you better stop thinking you're pushing boundaries and take her on a date if she says yes and kiss her at the end of it and stop assuming she just wants to be friends. IF she just wants to be friends, she won't accept a date, so be sure she knows it's a date you're asking her on, which the best way to be clear about that is make it just you and her and ask her to a movie and not just coffee.

[preraph]

^ That's right. You have to give them the benefit of the doubt that they have good enough taste to like you.

[Johnnyg1997]

I didn't want to ask her out because if she said no I didn't want it to be awkward for both of us if she said no because she sits across from me in class. I wanted the opinion of others to see if they think she's into me.

[d0nnivain]

I think she'd be open to spending more time with you. The begins of college relationships are not as well defined as relationships later on.

 

What are you plans for this weekend? Assuming you have at least one group activity going on, make sure she knows where you will be & suggest she & her GFs drop by. If she shows up & talks to you, she likes you. If she tells you why she can't come due to other plans, repeat the exercise next weekend. If she blows you off, she's not interested.

[Titanll]

I didn't want to ask her out because if she said no I didn't want it to be awkward for both of us if she said no because she sits across from me in class. I wanted the opinion of others to see if they think she's into me.

 

You want the green light to jump but no one here knows if she's interested in you. From what you posted, I'm inclined to say she's not into you. Why? Well, I kind of feel like you would know that by now.

 

You could be more detailed in your posts and I may say, Holy chit! She's crazy about you!

 

How about this: Quit worrying about screwing something up. Talk to her, ask her out, ask her to marry you...just see if she wants to go out sometime. Also, stop thinking of how awkward it may be if she turns you down. It's life, may as well get used to it.