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My Reflections 2 Years Post BU (Happy)

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Hi guys!

 

Just wanted to come back and update. I was on here a lot back in 2015 when my (ex) boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me and dumped me via text. This forum provided a lot of support for me so I thought I'd update you all ~2 years out :)

 

My ex graduated so we never saw each other again. I started feeling significantly happier 8 months post break up. I got into weight lifting and really focused on myself. I ended up meeting my new boyfriend of 7 months through the gym.

 

I just wanted to say it gets so much better guys. I know you're hurting right now but take it from someone who has been there you can and will get through this. It was painful but ultimately I'm so happy. My new boyfriend is a total sweet heart and treats me so well. He's given me the relationship I always wanted. On top of being an amazing guy he's so handsome and has an incredible physique (thank you gym).

 

I guess my point is you'll get through this and will find someone so much more suited for you. I've been there. Take it a day at a time. Sending lots of Internet love.

 

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Tiga Established Member

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Thank you so much for this!

 

I am glad you are happy and doing well. So happy for you, keep living your life and enjoy it.

 

If you get a chance please read my story (might need 30 mins for it lol) and give any advice it will be much appreciated.

 

I am into weight lifting as well and love working out, I hope I meet my swole mate one day as well! Good luck to you love❤️

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Can't stress this enough: people like you who come back after recovery just to help others, your posts are gold. Thank you so much.

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Tiga: the biggest advice I can give is to go no contact. It's hard but it is where the healing happens :)

 

Kitchen: thank you! This forum provided a lot to me when I was in a very rough place. I remember thinking I'd never get through it and I just wanted my ex back. Looking at the wonderful guy I have now and the person I've grown into without my ex I am so happy things "didn't" work out.

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