Tracy21 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 well what can I say....I keep meeting jerks, liars, or whatever you wanna call them...none of them worth my time...so I just give up.....(I am not bitter or anything...I am just opening my eyes and I am trying to focus on more important things like school, work, becoming a better person) I am no longer going to stress about the issue of dating...finding love or what not...now I am concentrating on personal growth and how to love my life.... Good LUCK to you all
Pyro Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 I think that its safe to say that we all have "given up" at some point. I understand you completely. I meet many new faces and they all turn out to be everything that you don't want. Focusing on your own life is definitely the right way to go. In my own personal experience, I have met all my former GF's when I least expected it. When you aren't concentrating on meeting a new guy, you will meet him. best of luck to you.
Zaira Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by Tracy21 ...now I am concentrating on personal growth and how to love my life.... That's what I'm doing too after dealing with too many jerks. I figure that when I am not looking, he will find me
JS17 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 i'm not bitter anymore it's really nice to not have the drama from guys in my life, i'm totally enjoying it and tuning out when my friends whine to me about their relationships and break ups. i'm so glad i'm not them right now!
alphamale Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 it's really nice to not have the drama from guys in my life, u must admit JS17 that some part of you misses the "drama". once you recover, you'll plunge in head first
noname Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 Originally posted by Tracy21 well what can I say....I keep meeting jerks, liars, or whatever you wanna call them...none of them worth my time...so I just give up.....(I am not bitter or anything...I am just opening my eyes and I am trying to focus on more important things like school, work, becoming a better person) I am no longer going to stress about the issue of dating...finding love or what not...now I am concentrating on personal growth and how to love my life.... Good LUCK to you all ah sh*t!!! now your in for it. it is always that attitude that catches people blindsided and the next thing you know, your gonna be head over heals. that's the breaks. when your looking, there is absolute crap. when you are content to be alone, somebody comes by to mess it all up... happy dating...
Nomad Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 "Better to have loved & lost..." Hell, I can't even get a girlfriend to be discouraged about...
sanne Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 i'm starting to find out why some guys really prefer the single life. Sure the sex may not be as frequent, but it's a hell of a lot more exciting and rewarding when it does happen now.
noname Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 Originally posted by sanne i'm starting to find out why some guys really prefer the single life. Sure the sex may not be as frequent, but it's a hell of a lot more exciting and rewarding when it does happen now. i don't know who told you that one. for many, it is more frequent... yeah, and single life is worth a lot more than sex anyway. it is just cool to be able to think for one sometimes...
Marshbear32 Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 i'm not bitter anymore Glad to hear it JS. Tracy, I know it gets frustrating when you want to find someone and you feel like you are just spinning your wheels with nothing to show for your efforts. Sometimes concentrating on yourself is a good thing because unless you are happy it really isn't worth it. No one else can make you happy and you need to find that happiness within you. When you achieve this the world is brighter. You are not just looking for someone to complete you and lots of times this is when you find them. Stay positive and things will work out...
SummerRae Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 Originally posted by sanne i'm starting to find out why some guys really prefer the single life. Sure the sex may not be as frequent, but it's a hell of a lot more exciting and rewarding when it does happen now. hahaha, wish i was at that point. I started dating again but realized I'm sooo not ready when some guy called me cynical. Made me laugh. Little does he know that I'm the BIGGEST romantic there could possibly be, usually. Just still in recovery mode. I think it truly does happen when you are not looking and just enjoying your own life. Good luck!
JS17 Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 oops yes, the guys are beating down my door. i'll have to pick one eventually but for now i'm pretty adamant about being single for a while.....like i said, it's really nice to not have the drama in my life.
Neptune Posted August 3, 2005 Posted August 3, 2005 Actually Tracy you should always be focused on personal growth and how to love your life. Dating is something that should happen as you pursue your goals. It should not be a goal in itself. If it is you will have to sort through a wide aray of jerks , liars or whatever.
Author Tracy21 Posted August 3, 2005 Author Posted August 3, 2005 Originally posted by Neptune Actually Tracy you should always be focused on personal growth and how to love your life. Dating is something that should happen as you pursue your goals. It should not be a goal in itself. If it is you will have to sort through a wide aray of jerks , liars or whatever. I couldn't agree with you more..and that's exactly what I am concentrating on right now
Mr.positive Posted August 4, 2005 Posted August 4, 2005 Its really great that your focusing on school, work etc...
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