Author Rosey87 Posted April 19, 2017 Author Posted April 19, 2017 Yeah, I'm in complete shock and awe. A little scared to boot. Her dad talked to me this morning, said that I'm not to blame for any of this. He said that he's making plans to get everybody out of the house, get her help and that hindsight is 20/20.
Jj66 Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 Sometimes all I can say is what the f--k!? You *all* need some serious help. Get out of this situation. You will never be able to recover otherwise.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 Yeah, I'm in complete shock and awe. A little scared to boot. Her dad talked to me this morning, said that I'm not to blame for any of this. He said that he's making plans to get everybody out of the house, get her help and that hindsight is 20/20. That's good. Now, cut them all off. You should not hang around in hopes of helping her. This is not a typical breakup and there is way too much at stake for you with her flinging around rape allegations.
Sweetfish Posted April 19, 2017 Posted April 19, 2017 File a report NOW! Do not wait for it to come to you.. You need to make a chess move now... do not take comfort in the Dad.
Author Rosey87 Posted May 16, 2017 Author Posted May 16, 2017 Hey everyone, hope you're all good. In March of this year my girlfriend and I got in a very bad argument and it ended with me leaving. There were other factors that were a component but not until we moved after a year of living together. Last month she started making outlandish and delusional allegations towards me of sexual assault, rape, abuse, control, killing people, drugging our water faucets, eating people, wearing black face, the list goes on and on. I talked to her father and she has been saying these things to everyone. I found out that she has schizophrenia. Has anyone here dealt with this? I'm looking for any help I can get. My girlfriend is a sweet, sweet, sweet, gorgeous and beyond amazing woman. I don't want her going through this. I'm so broken and hurt because I feel that our argument caused this. I can't stop blaming myself. I thought back a while ago that I might have to get a lawyer to protect myself from these allegations but, I'd rather be dealing with the law than knowing she's going through this. She still believes these things. Asks me if I've eaten people, killed them, that she absorbed our miscarried daughter in her body. I'm so hurt. Can someone please give me any insight? Can she come out of this? I pray to God and Jesus everyday. I pray to angels all the time. All I want is for us to be happy again. I'm so heartbroken. Please help, someone.
Downtown Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 I feel that our argument caused this. I can't stop blaming myself.That is only a feeling, Rosey. Don't believe it. Like bipolar disorder, schizophrenia is not caused by arguments but, rather, by a change in brain chemistry. The onset of schizophrenia typically occurs (to 1% of the population) between ages 16 and 30. That onset may develop slowly over several years or occur suddenly. Marijuana usage does not cause schizophrenia but can make the bad episodes occur more frequently. Can she come out of this? My understanding is that, once the onset occurs, only about 15% of individuals are able to eventually return to previous functioning capabilities. However, most individuals are able to live a meaningful and satisfying life, in the presence or absence of symptoms. See Schizophrenia Prognosis. A recent 10-year study on long-term prognosis reports: Several studies reported that, although symptom remission could be obtained for 27% of patients within 4 weeks and 45% within 5 years following treatment initiation, 20–30% of patients reached a treatment-resistant status on the other side. Even if patients reach remission once, a high relapse rate is inherent in this disorder. Actually, 35% of patients with schizophrenia experienced relapse within 2 years and 74% within 5 years after the onset. See 2013 Study. Please keep in mind that, because scientists do not know what causes this brain chemistry problem to occur, schizophrenia cannot be cured. Hence, instead of trying to cure it, the psychiatric community offers treatments and medications to help the patient manage the symptoms (e.g., the delusions and other thought disorders). Moreover, because schizophrenia is heritable, there is an increased risk of a child developing it when one parent has it. That risk increases from 1% (i.e., the risk to the general population) to 10% when one parent has been diagnosed as having schizophrenia. See MedicalNews.
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