kingwithnothing Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 Hey guys, I'm a sophomore in High School. There was this girl in my first period, first semester class that I grew a crush on. We barely talked cause our teacher was super mean, and always yelled at the class whenever people would talk. Anyways, it's second semester now, and we have no classes together, not even mutual friends. I see her once during the 3 min passing period between 3rd and 4th. I want to talk to her but I feel like 3 minutes every other day won't get me anywhere. P.S. There's like 3 weeks into the school left Please help me 1
basil67 Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 Start with simply smiling and saying "hi" when you walk past her. If she responds favourably, then next time you see her up the ante a little. Perhaps then say Hi and ask her how she's been. If she still responds favourably, ask her out. 2
Titanll Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 Well, if you only have three minutes, just say hello to her.
d0nnivain Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 Start saying hi in the halls. Are there any events or sports you can go to & sit by her? Do you know where she lives or where she'll be hanging out during the summer? 1
Popsicle Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 I thought kids these days only talk through Snapchat? 1
Popsicle Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 Quite wrong I was trying to hint at you sending her a message there.
d0nnivain Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 I kind of agree with Popsicle. I would not recommend this for somebody out of school, but since she's a classmate, find her on your favorite social media site & send her a friend / follow request. Communicate through that app, assuming you are old enough to have an account & your parents approve of you being on that platform. 1
Author kingwithnothing Posted May 17, 2017 Author Posted May 17, 2017 I added her on Snapchat but she never accepted the request. My Snapchat name isn't related to my real name so she maybe didn't know it was me
preraph Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 Make some type of account with your own name and add her. But yes, in 3 minutes between classes, you can get somewhere. So say hi and try to walk with her.
d0nnivain Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 I added her on Snapchat but she never accepted the request. My Snapchat name isn't related to my real name so she maybe didn't know it was me Make sure she knows IRL that your screen name is you. She'll probably add you.
GunslingerRoland Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 Do you have lunch break, TA break, spares, study days... those are all opportunities you may be able to use.
Author kingwithnothing Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 Looking at her twitter, it's pretty clear she likes this 19 year old in college in a nearby city, and he likes her back. So should I just give up?
bluefeather Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Reading this makes me feel old, because I don't understand kids that seem so.. different, to put it politely, in attempting communication via an app. 3 minutes passing is enough to get someone's attention, at least when added up a few days. I had a girlfriend I never had classes with. We talked when I'd walk her to her class. Go for it!
firestar Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 (edited) Just take a look at who she hangs out with. Who are her friends? See if any of her friends are in your classes. If she is popular and has a lot of friends, you must have class with one of them! Make friends with some of her friends and next time you see her hanging out with them go talk to that friend. Then quickly introduce yourself so she knows who you are. The goal is to get her to notice you, so be creative and think of ways to get closer to her. Also, have you tried eye contact? Back in high school when I had a crush on a boy I would try to catch his eye so he notices me. Just hold her gaze for a fraction of a second longer than you normally would with some stranger in the hallway. After making this kind of eye contact a few times I guarantee she will know who you are! Once she knows you you can drop your pen in front of her and say "excuse me" and lean past her to pick it up. If she has friendly and open body language you can think of ways to talk to her. If she looks away and seems closed off, then she might not be interested. Edited May 19, 2017 by firestar
Author kingwithnothing Posted May 19, 2017 Author Posted May 19, 2017 Thanks a lot for the help guys. I've pussied out three times already but hopefully I can talk to her this Monday. Two weeks of school left, I waited too long
bluefeather Posted May 20, 2017 Posted May 20, 2017 Do it! And get her number! Not this random text app bs
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