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I invited her over and now it's awkward


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I met a girl online and we dated a few times before I invited her back (we hadn't kissed yet but we got on really well and I was fairly sure we liked each other)

 

We're watching a movie and I finally kiss her. We both get undressed but it didn't lead to sex. I was kind of nervous and didn't want to jump the gun. Stupid I know.

 

Now things just seem awkward. She said she doesn't feel like I'm really into her and even though I've told her I am but it's not the same.

 

How do I turn it back around.

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You probably can't turn it back around. You more or less rejected her at a moment where one is very vulnerable.

 

You can try to come on strong, apologize, and tell her that this fool will more than make up for it the next time. But it will be a long shot.

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You can't, her mind is already made up. Next time don't rush it....

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Your one shot to turn this around is to ask to make it up to her. Invite her over & jump her. She feels rejected because you didn't have sex after she was undressed.

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Get her a present

Take her to dinner

The after invite her over and finish what you started

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Invite her over again and don't overthink it.

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Red Roses, my friend...Red Roses.

 

Seriously, why are you getting naked and not having sex? Damn, that would be awkward.

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