Dasfemmemadchen87 Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 So a few months ago I met this guy. I know him through mutual friends. At first I didn't know he was even attracted to me. So one day after we hung out with a few friends he messaged me saying he found me very attractive and would like to hang out. We tried to hang out a few times but I ended up having to cancel because of some things I had going on. He kept reminding me that he didn't want anything serious, which was ok with me because I don't know if I'm ready for anything serious. So we finally hooked up a couple times, and we had fun. But now I have realized that I really like him. I wouldn't mind dating more to see where things go but he tells me that he's just recently gotten a divorce. He says he doesn't plan on being with his ex even though she seems to want to get back together. I don't know how to go about this. I will message him here and there but that it. So what should I do? Cut things off (although we haven't hung out in about a week) or should I tell him that I like him and mess up the friendship?
smackie9 Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 You are setting yourself up for heartbreak. Don't believe his words, his attitude can change at the drop of a hat. Things are too unsettled, his ex has not moved on and this will just start drama....plus it's very likely you will end up as a rebound. If I were you I wouldn't invest in this anymore....step away.
Author Dasfemmemadchen87 Posted May 15, 2017 Author Posted May 15, 2017 Thank you. Yeah that seems to be a constant thing for me. I'm always a rebound.. I am trying to figure out the best way to forget about it. Sometimes he'll say "You know, if you want to come over, all you have to do is ask." I want to see more of him but I know it wouldn't be a good idea. We didn't hang out this weekend because of Mother's day. I talked to him for a second but that was it. Now I'm just trying to be strong enough not to get my feelings invested in this. He's been straight forward about not wanting anything, and always wants to be friends, so how, as a woman, just step away? How do I not let this get to me?
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