Mysterio Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 So what makes you attracted to the opposite sex. Body type/Face/Hair-Eye Colour. For me as a I get older. I am more about the face. I love looking at a woman that has more of a baby face and has kindness and innocence. I want to feel protected and loved and that she has my back. More than anything. I am a face guy more than a body guy. Hight, I don't care about. Eye and Hair colour. Same thing. Weight. Not super heavy. Not super thin as well. Think more girl next Door. I don't want he caked on make up super modal type. I love expressive looks from age 27 to 67 for females. Being in shape as well. Even if there is a little plumpness to them. So when you are dating or if you have a relationship. Whats your physical attraction to them. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 We all have a physical type or preference. If we could snap our fingers and manifest the perfect physical being, I'm certain we could all list out a wish list of physical attributes we want to look at in a romantic partner. My physical 'type'; tall, dark/European features, love a man with a beard, head full of thick wavy hair, gorgeous eyes, beautiful smile, not to think but not too muscular either, and on and on I go. Having said all of that, the older I've gotten the more fluid my attraction has become. It no longer hinges on just the way he looks but is often dictated by his whole being; personality, kindness, sense of humor, communicative, humble etc. Those things will always tip the scales in favor of someone or not more than just the way he looks on the outside. Yes, physical attraction is indeed important but for me, it's just one small piece to a much large puzzle. 1
4fin Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 At 47 I'm into 40 and up. I was at the gym this morning and a lot of the guys are checking out the girls/women? coming home from college. It's not that I don't find them attractive but I've got friends with daughters that age. Plus if you're not attractive from 18 to early 20's when will you be. When you're 45-50, had 3-4 kids and light up a room when you walk into it you've got something. For me you don't even have to walk. I was floored when I went to a Whole Foods to buy some groceries. I love to people watch and see who I find to be the most attractive. There was a mid to late 30's woman in a wheel chair I ran into a couple of times. She had more appeal than you could shake a stick at. The way she handled herself was fascinating to watch. She would smile and put people at ease helping her check out. My 10 yr old son ran into her struggling to put her groceries in her SUV and we stopped to help. Her attitude was just amazing. No negativity whatsoever. If I were single I would have had to ask if she were. There's no simple answer and it has changed as I age. At my 10 yr class reunion at 28 the girl from high school I thought was the most attractive was still very attractive but I was completely bored with talking to her. I couldn't get away quick enough but 10 years earlier I was completely infatuated with her. I'm just glad I can go to a place like Disney World with the family and after people watching all day know that my wife checks all of my boxes. 2
Miss Spider Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 (edited) I'm into receding hairlines Oh and glasses. hnnnnngh Edited May 15, 2017 by Cookiesandough 1
RecentChange Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 For me, the first thing that will turn my head is presence. Good posture, grooming, eye contact and a smile that ooze confidence, a guy that doesn’t look away when my eyes catch his. Beyond that, I don’t really have a strict type, certainly not tried to an eye color, or a type of hair or complexion. I am attracted to at least reasonably fit, and sorry guys, the stereotype does ring true, I do want him to be a least a bit taller than me. Okay, broad shoulders make me swoon. And MUST be stronger than me, I joke that I would never want to be with a man that I thought I could beat in a wrestling match. There are certain “looks” and styles that will instantly repel me, and others that will draw me in. But that’s the door opener – personality is key. A witty sense of humor, a positive outlook on life, SMART (oh gees, I think is my most important requirement, I can’t suffer a fool). 1
todreaminblue Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 (edited) i can see attractiveness...and think hey thats a stunning guy or girl for that matter.....but its not a physcial attraction its just an asthetic appreciation....a creative appreciation...a lot of my abstract poetry comes from people watching.... but for me to be attracted to soemone it is knowing them being around them........seeing something or hearing something from the inside.....a voice comes from the inside...and if there is kindness or gentleness it is often the first place to see those characteristics....if i hear that kindness or gentleness ill look again.....either for a friend..because i feel a sense of knowing, a feeling of home, a kindred soul.........or more....if the guy is single and age appropriate.....im not into immaturity...theres an arrogance in immaturity...and its something i cant stand in a man.... i then look for integrity ...humilty...compassion, altruism.....empathy, intelligence....and this takes time......to know and to find and to see.......but as my boxes get checked all the best traits, i respect and admire.....the more i find, the feelings grow stronger.....and develops into a full fledged physical attraction...a slow burn.......something i love to discover....because for me it is rare....right now i am actaully happy.......i am not attracted to anyone...i just want to be free....i can just appreciate and travel on....and i have a lot of travelling to do...me and the deep blue sea....that is my physical atraction at the moment....the need to be untied.....free......deb Edited May 15, 2017 by todreaminblue
4fin Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 "A girl who looks like she took less then five minutes on herself before she goes out." This or even less than 5 minutes. A woman that could get away with being pentecostal minus their hair style and dress. That just wake up in the morning beautiful look but there are other factors like intelligence that amplify what's there. There's a poster or 2 (actually 3) on this thread that fit the bill and one I'd really like to see a picture of just out of curiosity but there's something about the mystery that is very attractive. 1
Popsicle Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 Thin or athletic body with a nice face and I'm all in. 1
jjgitties Posted May 16, 2017 Posted May 16, 2017 I am a nose and eyes guy. I don't know why, but I have been known to get head over heels over a woman that has what I consider a very beautiful nose and eyes. As for body type. I don't like modern skinny or athletic and muscular. She has to have a bit of weight on her, meaning she has to look like a female -- not a 14 year old girl(the modern skinny type that hardly ever eats) or a 21 year old male (the athletic muscular ones).
SwordofFlame Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 For me it's body type. I'm less pickier about the face.
carhill Posted May 17, 2017 Posted May 17, 2017 Aura and smell, mostly. Looking back, interestingly, one 'type', if it could be called one, is I don't believe I ever had anything long-term with a woman who was into fragrances, like perfumes. That plays into the 'smell' angle, meaning natural odor was a part of the physical attraction process. All the obvious stuff, like the physical characteristics outlined in the OP, nada. Each woman has been very unique. Tall, short, thin, fat, different features, shape, etc. No commonalities at all. That still runs true today on the rare occasion I run across someone who immediately catches my attention. Outlier? Probably. Most guys I know have a definite type and their girlfriends/wives mirror it. That could be why they're more successful; they're targeted, not random. IDK.
Author Mysterio Posted May 18, 2017 Author Posted May 18, 2017 I love an expressive face and a great smile.
Chilli Posted May 18, 2017 Posted May 18, 2017 (edited) Love the face and the arse , gotta be in shape, and other little yummy bit's But in the face yeah , there ls the personality too and that's why someone will say wowww love her or her, and she might be stunning, but l won't. because personality shows in the face and if that's not a person l see l'd love then it doesn't matter what she looks like. lt's hard to explain but l'm usually spot on about a person. But l think most of all there's this calm l lve in a girl, at peace, totally comfortable with who she is and nothing to prove,no chip on her shoulder, just loveeee that look. Edited May 18, 2017 by Chilli 1
SammySammy Posted May 18, 2017 Posted May 18, 2017 I prefer a woman shorter than me. Otherwise, I'm attracted to a wide variety of women that have a wide range of physical features. For me, attraction ultimately comes down to personality and attitude. That package it's wrapped in is important but usually not what attracts me or keeps me interested.
Inya Posted May 18, 2017 Posted May 18, 2017 My imaginary alpha male Taller than I am, dark hair (gray is ok these days), warm and kind eyes (brown or green), confident sincere smile, NOT skinny (no beer belly either), in a good shape, strong but gentle hands, soft chest hair, sexy butt....ufff ...and I probably wouldn't even notice the guy if he was standing before me... 1
Chilli Posted May 19, 2017 Posted May 19, 2017 Ahh well , if we're talking purely physical then l better put in a pic of gf, was , she was perfect. Small and petite,incredible body head to tow and a really cute face, black hair , wore the coolest gear, yet very gutsy. Bit too gutsy sometimes you'd swear she must be 1o ft tall , think she thought she was.
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