Mixed signals

[grazyexes]

- this girl wanted me so bad few months ago but i was taken

- i broke up and started texting her

- she acted like she still wanted me

- turns out she likes someone else already

- this guy did mess with her feelings

- she came to my house and we ****ed and slept together

- after that she was so cold so i stopped texting her

- two weeks and that guy left her

- she started texting me alot and told me that she wants me

- so much mixed signals next few days.

- now shes cold again i think that guy is giving her hope or something again.

 

What should I do?

What is running through my head right now, is that if she still wants me someday, she needs to chace me so bad and work for it. Im not chacing that girl anymore although i like her so much. This is very difficult for me right now.

[mikeylo]

- this girl wanted me so bad few months ago but i was taken

- i broke up and started texting her

- she acted like she still wanted me

- turns out she likes someone else already

- this guy did mess with her feelings

- she came to my house and we ****ed and slept together

- after that she was so cold so i stopped texting her

- two weeks and that guy left her

- she started texting me alot and told me that she wants me

- so much mixed signals next few days.

- now shes cold again i think that guy is giving her hope or something again.

 

What should I do?

What is running through my head right now, is that if she still wants me someday, she needs to chace me so bad and work for it. Im not chacing that girl anymore although i like her so much. This is very difficult for me right now.

 

You stop contact with her,completely. She doesn't have any feelings for you.

[Gillys]

It sounds like she is putting you in a "back up" roll position in case things dont work out with the another guy. I wouldn't chase her or contact her first.

 

Also something to think about, it sounds like she slept with you while she still had a boyfriend. Do you really want to get involved with a woman who thinks its okay to bang other dudes behind her man's back because she is angry with him?

[grazyexes]

It sounds like she is putting you in a "back up" roll position in case things dont work out with the another guy. I wouldn't chase her or contact her first.

 

Also something to think about, it sounds like she slept with you while she still had a boyfriend. Do you really want to get involved with a woman who thinks its okay to bang other dudes behind her man's back because she is angry with him?

 

Very good point. She cheated him with me so how can i trust her if shes going to be with me someday. I understand and accept the fact that im just a back up because we dont really know eachother very well. I think we have seen twice or something so im not surprised if this other guy she knows very well is her number one atm.

If something is happening between us someday, I need to make sure she doesnt want her ex at all, or she will most likely cheat on me with him if that douche want some... you know

[grazyexes]

I can't take this anymore something is completely wrong with me. Why i keep wanting her so much and we don't even know eachother well, i don't get it.

 

She still wants her ex and every time she is mad for not having him she keeps texting me. I never start the conversation by myself and i never keep it going by myself because thats just stupid. I answer casually acting like i dont really care that much.

 

Today, she banged some dude she knows and im so mad because i was hoping she will get over her ex and starts dating me. I was so close to text her and ask what the **** is going on with you, but thank God i didnt.

 

I hope she is just using that guy to make her ex jealous or is using him as a rebound instead of me.

 

I just need to ****ing move on, but I cant do it...

[preraph]

It shouldn't be this much work. And don't hold your breath for her to chase you because there's other guys going to get her before she probably gets around to that.