What's her intentions? Wants out of her relationship? Bored?

[Hitcher]

So went to a cousin's party at her house and later to a bar. Her mate was at the house...decent looking, a good laugh etc.

 

And stared at me a lot, glanced at me a lot... the usual. I thought ok I'll try it with her at the bar. But her boyfriend turns up. Ok fine so I just got on with the night and didn't do anything.

 

But then she starts flirting with me with her bf not too far away. Putting her arms around me, saying "where have you been?" "I've been looking for you" etc. I didn't really show an interest at this point cos of her bf (even though I am interested)

 

Then upstairs while I'm sitting at a table, and she's kissing her bf at the table infront of me and while kissing him she glances over to me at least 5 times. (To see if I'm looking? To make me jealous?) I then get up and walk away.

 

Wtf are her intentions here?

 

She can't be happy in her relationship surely? And if she wants out do I really wanna get involved with a girl like this?

 

There's another function next week, and her bf won't be there.

 

I wanna show my interest in her this time. Without her bf there.

Edited May 14, 2017 by Hitcher

[somanymistakes]

We don't have enough information to tell, and neither do you.

 

It's totally possible she just likes to flirt with other men as a way of teasing her boyfriend, so that he'll dominantly "reclaim" her afterwards. It's also possible she's fishing for a threesome with you and her BF.

 

It does NOT guarantee that she's unhappy in her relationship.

 

If you were dating her, would you be happy with her flirting with other people in public? Because most likely, she enjoys that kind of attention.

[Hitcher]

Honestly I'd be fuming if I was her bf.

 

Especially if he had caught her while they were kissing and she kept glancing at me.

 

Massively disrespectful.

[Hitcher]

When her bf wasn't there at the house, she was staring at me a lot.

 

Tbf he is a bore, can she why she'd be unhappy.