mortensorchid Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 A few weeks ago someone approached me. We friended each other on Facebook and we were exchanging a lot of text messages. I was wary, I told him I was taking a chance here because I've had terrible luck and just because he was interested in me didn't mean this was going to be. He told me a bit about himself (was married once briefly, worked as a chef, etc.), I told him just factual information about me. Then he said he'd been on dating websites and he asked himself why he was doing this, I said I had had similar experiences. So we arranged to meet up in a few days, I said okay and we set a tentative day/time. I wake up today, sign onto the computer, and he unfriended me. He was just yanking my chain. Annoyed but ... It's what it is.
Tressugar Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 You're having a rough year in dating just like the rest of us. Take a break from dating and get into yourself and enjoy life!
Shining One Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 Flakes are everywhere these days. The only solution I've found is volume. Make lots of plans. Some will flake. Focus on those that don't.
preraph Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 I guess all he got out of it was being able to tell his little friends he got a girl to agree to go out with him. he's probably really 15.
ShyLove Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 Maybe you came off as a little standoffish in your messages since you already had some skepticism from the beginning?? I have stopped responding to guys on OLD who seemed like they were so skeptical of every little thing. I get being skeptical to a certain degree but I feel if someone is too skeptical they should stick to real life only. I don't have time to sit around and reassure someone I have never met. But I wouldn't sweat it. In the end he probably did you a favor and saved you a lot of time anyway
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