asking me to study with him at his place?

[diddy]

WE ARE classmates,we talk from time to time on fb about school.

so we had class together last week and he was struggling with the price calculations.

so he asked me if i have time to help him out on fb ,i say yes and he wants us to do it at his place?

THATS A BIG RED ZONE FOR ME(am gonna ask him to study some where else like the library)

 

but now am confused.are his intetions really to study? cos mostly when guys ask to come over at there place its to hook up,but now i cannot tell cos he is a classmate ,he has a gf,he is muslim and if he does we still have classes and things would be awkward.I dont think he would take such a risk,but with men and sex u never know.

[ZayKayWill]

First off, your username is awesome (and kind of weird since I'm assuming you're a girl?). Anyway yes when it comes to guys a lot of the time we like to take any opportunity for sex that we can get. That's not how all guys are, though. Maybe he genuinely does just want to study at his place. Maybe he finds the environment an easier place to study or something. You mentioned him being Muslim and IIRC a lot of Muslim guys tend to have multiple wives...so who knows maybe he does want to have some fun with you. Don't assume, though...if you're more comfortable studying at the library then that's completely fine. Good luck.

[preraph]

Just tell him you want to do it at the library. If he asks why, tell him you don't make a practice of going over to guy's rooms.

[d0nnivain]

It's a mixed bag. At finals, there isn't usually a lot of space in the library & it can get noisy. Somebody's room will be quieter but you can talk about the subject without disturbing anybody else.

 

 

If you think it's a pretext to get you alone, stick to your guns about the library but if you need some privacy / a place to talk about the subject, don't totally rule it out. If when you get there, you can see he wants to study you not the subject, just leave.