Living with partner, loving someone at work....

[ForeverTwentySomthin]

Ok, it isn't as bad as it sounds.. It's not click bait I swear.. I just need some advice.

 

I'm in a current situation where I live with my partner of 2 years. He doesn't seam to show me that he is truly into me anymore and it's the simple things that would go a long way with me but he doesn't do anything to try and brighten my day, the honey moon phase came and went and I would like to think we are stronger than this but he just doesn't give me the attention/affection I crave anymore. I'm talking emotionally. I feel like my self esteem has gotten worse, Ive gained weight (it's sad but I have to be honest with myself on this). And lastly he looks at other women now it doesn't bother me but when he hasn't put me on a pedestal in over 7months this is where I am getting salty.

 

 

So I've been busting my butt at this company I work for for a lil over a year now. I was becoming faithless that nothing good was going to come of it I been depressed and sad over the fact that I felt nothing I did was worth anything until I got a promotion. Its become clearer to me that this relationship I'm in is toxic...

 

So I have this new crush on this guy whom I work with at the new location I'm in... I somehow feel like he can see everything that's wrong just by looking at me and it's comforting yet concerning.. I don't know a lot about him but I feel I do.. it's strange but I kinda like it and him.. and I really didn't want to catch the feels for someone right now. I need to figure out where my heart is an to understand if this relationship I am in is really destructive of not...

[ZayKayWill]

The way I see it, you can either talk to your current partner and tell him how you feel or just move on to this new guy you're starting to notice. Just know, though, that if you break up with your current bf things are going to get complicated especially since you live together...good luck.