AleroGurl Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 k im beings tupid...the hoe that my ex is now with AND i assume cheated on is on a forum I go onto and im losing it...im making indirect comments about her and i dont wanna do this!!!!! its killing me here and i dont know how to stop. i dont wanna stop going on the forum simply bc her stank ass is there but, i need to stop commenting about her...i HATE this!! im almsot 25 and it feels like im competing with a 19 yr old....
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 You sound like a 15 year old not a 25 year old right now.. cool your jets.. and stop posting about her.. The internet is everywhere
Author AleroGurl Posted August 1, 2005 Author Posted August 1, 2005 i kno...i just hate the fact that its being rubbed in my face and they are loving every minute of it...grrr
moon Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 It's totally normal to feel angry and upset when some guy is playing you. But you can't control what he or his new girlfriend are doing you can only control yourself. Can you control the sun that will set with or with out your permission today? No.........You can't control other people. If they want to be with you great, if not......you've got to leave it at that. The quicker you figure that out, the better you'll be. Distract yourself with something else and know you're in for a long ride of getting over this guy, but it will in fact happen at some point. It ALWAYS does!! You get over them. Exes aren't so great. They are just people....just like you. They aren't magical or superior, they are just plain old people. Remember that. Good luck.
Author AleroGurl Posted August 2, 2005 Author Posted August 2, 2005 thanks moon! funny thign happened tonight. i told him to remove me from his contact list, and then i got hte closure i wanted...even tho he was being a HUGE dink...he said he wants to be friends and i told him no. im not dealing with his little hoochie...he then asked for the pic that was in my display pic, and i said why and he said 'to jer* off to'..i was like...are u kidding me?! thats kinda weird...i send it to him bc i looked good in it and really...i didnt care ifhe had it....half way thru the transfer he flips out 'u are a whore. u look like such a slut in that pic. i cant beleive ud do taht, u hoe' i was all..'excuse me? u do NOT call me those names' and hes 'i thought i knew u. i didnt think ud ever do something like this'...whats he talkin about? i was going out with my girls 2 weekends ago and i looked HOTT!! i had a low cut shirt on and i am well endowed in that department...and he lost it. said imma hoe for wearing that shirt. that he'll never talk to a slut like me. just blows my mind why he said those things. he saw me there at the bar that night and i told him 'just bc i put makeup on and looked hot and u cant handle that. but that gives u no right to call me a hoe' and he said 'its nt that at all' then proceeded to call me a dirty, easy looking slut... NO idea...i kno i looked good that night. i jsut dont get why he did a 180 degree turn
blue16 Posted August 2, 2005 Posted August 2, 2005 If you do care, maybe ask him what the hell he was talking about? There has to be more to the story... Then again the fact that he asks for you picture to 'jerk off to' then calls you a slut, skank, hoe, etc...shows that he isn't very mature at all and isn't worth your time. Personally I would just ignore him but it's up to you.
Author AleroGurl Posted August 2, 2005 Author Posted August 2, 2005 he said that the reason he called me those names is bc im protraying myself like that by wearing a low cut shirt ONCE in over a year....so really i dont know wtf his problem is. jealousy maybe? i dont know...jsut hruts that he would call me those names... THEN today he kept texting me and said he wants the pics(????) and for me to send them to his email...i denied. and he said he wants to be friends BUT he's not gonan stop talking to his 19yr old 'friend' who he claims he BARELY talks to...whatever....i cant be friends with him. esp how he NEEDS her...so yea...confused a wee bit ehre
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