Author Dis Posted May 14, 2017 Author Posted May 14, 2017 Things should go fine, naturally. 30 is still young and you might unfortunately attract wrong guys or guys that leaves you a bad vibes dates after dates. Its tough to find someone outside of OLD when one has gathered all advices on LS like 'Don't dip your pen', 'cautious with the age gap', and others. No doubt you're good hearted. Not all kind people are taken already by that age as you and others should have proven. But you may find what you're looking for eventually. At this point I have no more advices to give you except that I am sure you'll find your match one of these days. This is much appreciated Shanex It made me smile Its true that the advice on here does make things a little more complicated. I guess good things just take time..and I'm ok with that Thanks Xoxo 2
Popsicle Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 Lol Dis. You know you want to go out with him. Just go out with him. Why must there be so much questioning and back and forth? 2
Author Dis Posted May 15, 2017 Author Posted May 15, 2017 Lol Dis. You know you want to go out with him. Just go out with him. Why must there be so much questioning and back and forth? Lol thanks girl Consider it done I'm seeing him tomorrow night If its a fun night, then great. If not, I'm fine with that too 3
Shanex Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 Dis, absolutely and you were given an excellent insight by this poster above. Picking everything apart and dissecting things like crazy. This is dating not a goddamn biology class. We all have flaws. Looking for Mr, or Mrs perfect just keep you single til ... Who knows. Give people a chance. Negativity tend to abund here. Good night, best of luck with him. 1
Popsicle Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 Dis, absolutely and you were given an excellent insight by this poster above. Picking everything apart and dissecting things like crazy. This is dating not a goddamn biology class. We all have flaws. Looking for Mr, or Mrs perfect just keep you single til ... Who knows. Give people a chance. Negativity tend to abund here. Good night, best of luck with him. I'd also like to add to this.... don't be so upset/disheartened afterwards if things don't work out. It was for the best. And if you find yourself getting exhausted (which is different from frustrated) from going on dates/meeting new men, then take a break and rest. Take as long as you need to and try to not talk to ANY men. lol 2
todreaminblue Posted May 15, 2017 Posted May 15, 2017 (edited) I love the highlander series of there at the end of one guy just being the one unfortunately i dont believe highlanders are ever going to walk the mortal realm of dating...... go out with the guy have no expectations other than to know him a bit better to make an informed decision whether it is a relationship with him you wish to pursue.... put an expectation on a guy adn its like an anonymous test he will probably fail...but get to know the guy for who he is...and things might be a little different in your mind.....enjoy the date......relax...np expectations...and if you dont feel anything after seven dates/.....let the guy go.....and wish him well....i figure if it took god seven days in total to make the world and have a chill out rest day too....a guy deserves at least seven to know who he is....enough to make one simple decision of whether to continue seeing him or not anyway...nice guys seven dates.....my motto........ if he gropes on the first...then just like the highlander series....in all seriousness... do the there shall be only one thing......date thing..hee hee..ahem...sorry....i want to go where they based highlander...its on my bucket list....:0)...good luck...with you....in finding your realistic well dressed kilted highlander.......:bunny:...deb Edited May 15, 2017 by todreaminblue 2
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