Timuquana2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 I broke up with my ex-boyfriend back in January of this year. And thru the grapevine he found out that I've been seeing someone. And ever since he found out he has been bugging me with questions if I've been intimate with anyone and whenever I tell him that its none of his business he says he only ask because he doesn't want to see me get hurt. He has a girlfriend so I don't even know why in the world he is so wrapped up in my dating life. Then to push my buttons even further he will say;"Just be straight up and tell me if you have. No reason to lie." When I broke up with him I told him that I cannot be friends with him but he makes it his business to ask thru mutual friends of ours what I'm up to. I've blocked him from all social media and he still keeps insisting on pressing to being friends. Just seeking a WHY this man could so concerned with my sex life?
Frostedflake Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Because seeing you be a sexual being again kills his ego. He knows he isn't the last one to touch you. And if he's really crazy/paranoid he'll start assuming that you were messing around towards the end of the relationship. Pay it no mind. He's grasping straws of his own selfworth and it has nothing to do with you. Enjoy yourself. :] 3
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 He's concerned about your sex life because he misses having a starring role in it. Stop talking to him at all, about anything. 1
Author Timuquana2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Author Posted May 12, 2017 I haven't shared any details with him about my new relationship. Or anything else for that matter.
Author Timuquana2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Author Posted May 12, 2017 He's concerned about your sex life because he misses having a starring role in it. Stop talking to him at all, about anything. Because seeing you be a sexual being again kills his ego. He knows he isn't the last one to touch you. And if he's really crazy/paranoid he'll start assuming that you were messing around towards the end of the relationship. Pay it no mind. He's grasping straws of his own selfworth and it has nothing to do with you. Enjoy yourself. :] Ahhhh....I forgot about the male ego. He actually revealed his crazy/paranoid side a couple of weeks ago by leaving a voice mail on my phone accusing me of cheating on him prior to our breakup. I didn't even respond. I just laughed my head off because he was actually describing his actions. He cheated on me with another woman....the one he is currently dating right now.
sweetgirl75 Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Ahhhh....I forgot about the male ego. He actually revealed his crazy/paranoid side a couple of weeks ago by leaving a voice mail on my phone accusing me of cheating on him prior to our breakup. I didn't even respond. I just laughed my head off because he was actually describing his actions. He cheated on me with another woman....the one he is currently dating right now. When they accuse you of things they are usually doing it themselves. He needs to mind his own business. He lost you and no longer has any say in what you do with your personal life. 1
blazerix Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 Just ignore it! When I found out my ex-girlfriend was dating someone else, I would always feel terrible inside thinking about her being intimate with another man. However, I never confronted her about this because I knew that I can't control her actions, and she is doing it out of her own will. Once you have broken up with the other person, they have absolutely no say in your life. Pay no attention to your ex-bf and keep doing you!
ExpatInItaly Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 I haven't shared any details with him about my new relationship. Or anything else for that matter. Don't respond to him at all. He'll give up when you ignore him.
preraph Posted May 14, 2017 Posted May 14, 2017 It's an ego thing for him. Like the black widow spider who mates and then kills her mate. This is appealing to a lot of people. This is none of his business and he is probably going to interfere with a future relationship if you don't thoroughly block him and end all contact or way of him seeing what or who you are doing.
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