bmne90 Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 So, recently, I met a college girl through an app. We haven't met yet, we're just texting through the app, talking about a variety of things. I initially offered to help her with an exam that I coincidentally took about a year ago. She agreed to it saying it's "urgent" and that she needed my notes ASAP. However, she changed the subject and offered to help me on MY homework lol. It seems she didn't even need to take that exam at all lol. This week, we're talking about summer break, and how she's on the East Coast visiting her friend for a few months. When she asked me what my plans were, I told her I'd be heading home to Cali. She sounded very enthusiastic about wanting to visit Cali, and that she hopes to visit. I offered to show her around if she ever decides to. She hasn't decided, but says that if she left her friend behind, that it "isn't a great idea". I'm starting to feel like her "friend" could perhaps be her boyfriend lol. Idk what do y'all think? And what does she even want from me? Thanks in advance
authenticity Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 Has she given any other hints to whether she has a boyfriend? Do you know the name of this person on the East coast? This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all. You guys haven't even met in person yet and you're already begging for her to come to Cali to visit, alone. Why are you so hung up on this person by the way? 1
d0nnivain Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 I think none of this matters until you meet in person. For now, all you know is what she wrote on an App. She might not even be a girl or a student. 2
act00 Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Goodness gracious, see if you can meet before the semester ends and before everyone parts ways and goes home or does whatever it is they do. You can communicate during the summer, phone calls, face time, and maybe she can make that trip to the west coast to visit, and maybe you can head to the east coast to visit her. The possibilities are endless. I don't know if this friend is a boyfriend. That's what you will have to determine as you talk to her, if you maintain communication during your summer break. Don't put a whole lot of stock in a relationship that is starting with two people going to opposite ends of the country without ever meeting in person or barely meeting. The three-hour time difference is going to be a little bit of a bitch to work around. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, it doesn't. When you both get back to school, you can see if there's still something there. Just enjoy the ride. She's into you, you're into her and life circumstances are causing a bit of an issue. 1
Author bmne90 Posted May 12, 2017 Author Posted May 12, 2017 Goodness gracious, see if you can meet before the semester ends and before everyone parts ways and goes home or does whatever it is they do. You can communicate during the summer, phone calls, face time, and maybe she can make that trip to the west coast to visit, and maybe you can head to the east coast to visit her. The possibilities are endless. I don't know if this friend is a boyfriend. That's what you will have to determine as you talk to her, if you maintain communication during your summer break. Don't put a whole lot of stock in a relationship that is starting with two people going to opposite ends of the country without ever meeting in person or barely meeting. The three-hour time difference is going to be a little bit of a bitch to work around. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, it doesn't. When you both get back to school, you can see if there's still something there. Just enjoy the ride. She's into you, you're into her and life circumstances are causing a bit of an issue. Appreciate the advice! So it sounds like taking it slow is a good idea? Maintain contact and see what happens? She often reminds me that she's leaving town by the end of the month, but at the same time gives off the impression that she's too busy to meet. Should I push to meet up before she leaves?
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Yes, push to meet before she leaves. Offer to study together if that is all the time she has. 1
Author bmne90 Posted May 20, 2017 Author Posted May 20, 2017 So, she agreed to meeting me before she leaves after some convincing on my part. She wanted to take it slow and meet me when she's back in town after summer break. Anyway she went from being very reluctant to very enthusiastic, which I thought is a good sign lol. However, lately, her texts have been talking an awful lot about the things she does with her "friend" on the East Coast with whom she's visiting for the upcoming summer break (i.e. cooking all the foods that her "friend" likes, scheduling road trips around the East Coast around their odd sleeping schedules, and how she's preparing desserts this time around for vacation.) She hasn't stated whether or not it's her boyfriend and I haven't directly asked, so all the while she just refers to this person as a "friend". Anyway, wanted to see what everyone thinks, is it pretty obvious she has a boyfriend? And if so, why does she still want to meet up with me before she leaves?
todreaminblue Posted May 20, 2017 Posted May 20, 2017 So, she agreed to meeting me before she leaves after some convincing on my part. She wanted to take it slow and meet me when she's back in town after summer break. Anyway she went from being very reluctant to very enthusiastic, which I thought is a good sign lol. However, lately, her texts have been talking an awful lot about the things she does with her "friend" on the East Coast with whom she's visiting for the upcoming summer break (i.e. cooking all the foods that her "friend" likes, scheduling road trips around the East Coast around their odd sleeping schedules, and how she's preparing desserts this time around for vacation.) She hasn't stated whether or not it's her boyfriend and I haven't directly asked, so all the while she just refers to this person as a "friend". Anyway, wanted to see what everyone thinks, is it pretty obvious she has a boyfriend? And if so, why does she still want to meet up with me before she leaves? why not ask her...next time she mentions her friend..just ask when you say friend do you mean boyfriend....deb
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