julien92 Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 Backstory- me and this girl share glances each other for 3 months till now. but she's isn't smiling just glances, is glances/staring the same? Question- this girl looks at me at a distance not very far, but when she is close to me she won't even take a glance at me. is she interested in me? *honest opinions please before I make a move.
d0nnivain Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 It could mean she likes you but is shy. It could mean that you have spinach in your teeth. Just talk to her already. What is the worst that can happen? 1
Deonce Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 She could be interested. It seems like she's shy though. So you'll probably never find out if she is interested unless you talk to her first. 2
Miss Spider Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 There is no way for us to know. Why don't you just ask her 5
smackie9 Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 Why don't you introduce yourself to her and chat her up...then ask her for her number....that's the best way to get a feel for the situation.....with confidence! You only have a certain window of opportunity to get the girl.....you stretch this out too long, she's going to lose interest.
CptInsano Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 Why don't you introduce yourself to her and chat her up...then ask her for her number....that's the best way to get a feel for the situation.....with confidence! You only have a certain window of opportunity to get the girl.....you stretch this out too long, she's going to lose interest. It doesn't even have to be confidence. In my experience nonchalance or a humorous approach work just as well. The point is, don't overthink and talk to her. 1
smackie9 Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 It doesn't even have to be confidence. In my experience nonchalance or a humorous approach work just as well. The point is, don't overthink and talk to her. Doesn't it take confidence to be nonchalant or humorously approach? 1
preraph Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 It could mean you resemble her cousin Larry. Probably she is just a people watcher, but just say hi. 2
CptInsano Posted May 11, 2017 Posted May 11, 2017 (edited) Doesn't it take confidence to be nonchalant or humorously approach? No, I still remember that I had a really weird day the day I approached my first girlfriend. I knew as messed up as the day was, getting rejected by her wouldn't make any difference at that point. I've also chatted up women because I was bored, amused, or just couldn't stop my smart-ass mouth in time. That has little to do with confidence. In either case, there shouldn't be an excuse for the OP not to talk to her. Edited May 11, 2017 by CptInsano 1
bartrain Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 She may be interested. But there are not many chances that she is in love for the moment.
victoria88 Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 (edited) She could be interested. It seems like she's shy though. So you'll probably never find out if she is interested unless you talk to her first. Yes, a few people here explained it very well. If she is looking at you (many times), she likes you (or even she is in love with you-this happened to me). If she does not talk to you, she is probably shy. I totally agree. One more thing: some women do not show that they are in love with a man (for example the shy kind of women). So men, just because a woman does not come to tell you straight to your face that she lost her mind on you does not mean that she did not (I confirm this happened to me-I totally lost my mind but I have not said a word to the blue eyed). There are many different kinds of women (more sociable would express and say more, shy women would not say much). However concerning shy women a piece of advice for the men: be patient, talk to her, she only need a few conversations to feel confortable to talk to you. I wish you Luck & True Love. Edited May 12, 2017 by victoria88 1
Titanll Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 I have no clue but I will almost certainly assure you that the lack of a smile is not a good sign if you are interested in her possibly romantically. I don't know much but approach calls are almost infallible. A look without smile is about as anti-approach as it gets. Talk to her and see where it goes.
Author julien92 Posted September 21, 2017 Author Posted September 21, 2017 I've seen her talking on the phone, meaning she's not single i assume? or is she's just flirting with me, by looking at me?
Miss Spider Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 5 months and still with this. Just ask her...
Redhead14 Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 Backstory- me and this girl share glances each other for 3 months till now. but she's isn't smiling just glances, is glances/staring the same? Question- this girl looks at me at a distance not very far, but when she is close to me she won't even take a glance at me. is she interested in me? *honest opinions please before I make a move. Everyone wants a crystal ball and know for sure if a woman will reject them or not . . . if you like her, ask her out. If you have "crystal balls" and they break because she declined, you need to get a tougher set.
kortz Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 I've seen her talking on the phone, meaning she's not single i assume? or is she's just flirting with me, by looking at me? How can you assume that from her talking on the phone?!?!?! She could be talking to a friend, a sibling, a parent, her bank etc etc. But by the time you actually go talk to her she probably will have a boyfriend as you're taking way too long!! Just go over to her one day and say 'Hi I see you here all the time and just wanted to introduce myself' and go from there. What have you got to lose by talking to her?
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