Erik30 Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 A female friend asked me if I'm seeing someone. Could she be interested or am I reading too much into it? We weren't having a conversation about relationships or anything, it was just one short text with that question out of the blue. A couple of days before that she was talking about how she felt bad because all her girlfriends were having babies while she's still single. I think she's cute so I would date her, but I'm not sure if that was her intention at all. It could be really awkward if I asked her out, and it turned out it really was just a question and nothing more. Last time I've seen her was November of last year, so it's not like we're close friends, but I've known her for 5 years. (She just got in a relationship when I first met her, which lasted 4 years, they broke up last year) There has been an increase in texting lately though
Titanll Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 You're not exactly giving us much to work with here. I can tell you for certain that she wants to know if you are dating anyone. 2
Kamille Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 I think she's cute so I would date her, but I'm not sure if that was her intention at all. It could be really awkward if I asked her out, and it turned out it really was just a question and nothing more. It would be awkward and then you would both get over it. You're resilient enough to get over rejection, should it happen. Ask her out and find out. 3
Author Erik30 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Posted May 10, 2017 It would be awkward and then you would both get over it. You're resilient enough to get over rejection, should it happen. Ask her out and find out. It would be awkward because a couple of months ago she told me about some guy (also a friend of her) who basically threw himself at her when she just broke up
smackie9 Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 Dude just tell her you think she's cute and would like to take her out on a date. Confidence wins the girl. If it doesn't work out, who cares. 5
Author Erik30 Posted May 10, 2017 Author Posted May 10, 2017 Dude just tell her you think she's cute and would like to take her out on a date. Confidence wins the girl. If it doesn't work out, who cares. Thanks. Yeah, you're right. I already gave her some compliments about her looks so she probably knows.. I'll just suggest something
bartrain Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 Hum.. It's maybe just a simple question to a friend. If she continue, she may be interested, but I don't think she is for the moment. 1
TaxMan Posted May 12, 2017 Posted May 12, 2017 She may be interested, but based on that question alone I wouldn't assume anything. She may be asking so she can try to set you up with a friend or something like that. Just asking that question alone could mean nothing. That said, if you're interested, as others have said, ask her out and see what happens. As was said, the worst that can happen is that she says no and you have a period of awkwardness and then things go back to normal. It doesn't sound like she was your best friend anyway since you hadn't seen her in six months, so I say go for it. 2
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