d-pop-stop Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 so my ex and i broke up 5 months ago, since the break up i have contacted her 3 times, twice in the first month then once after about 3 months. the 3rd time i contacted her wanting to talk but then called it often saying i didnt want to. she got mad and blocked and deleted me. shes contacted after 7 weeks asking if im ready to talk yet, im in the middle of exams so i told it wasnt a good time for us to talk. she said she understand and good luck with my exams. that night i didnt sleep and got so mad at her messaging me that i sent her a message saying "dont contact me again" and blocked her. not sure if i made the right move but i honestly dont think i can deal with her in my life in anyway i feel asif keeping her block out is the best move for me. though, obviously theres the part of me that wants to know what she wants to talk about. why would she contact me after 5 months wanting to talk? my main guess she just want to try and be freindly to absolve herself of anyguilt about the break up. advice needed guys
bluefeather Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 With what you have written so far, it sounds best to continue not speaking. Who broke up with who? Lots of people come here saying, "my ex and I broke up," but that's never the way it is. Either you broke up with them or they broke up with you.
Author d-pop-stop Posted May 10, 2017 Author Posted May 10, 2017 she broke up with me, been together 2 years, long distance. i moved to uni, wasnt really working and she was becoming difficult to deal with so i stoped talking to her so she broke it off.
bluefeather Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 Then she might be trying to bury the hatchet, relieve herself of guilt like you said, or something else. Can't really tell much from a text like that. It's a petty form of communication. But this whole texting and then blocking eachother back and forth thing is immature. It doesn't sound like you're both very good for eachother, at least not at the moment. Ask yourself if you are really wanting something from her, whether it is a second try, friendship, or anything at all. Because at this point, you are not acting with any clear intentions, just stirring things up and causing a bit of drama.
Author d-pop-stop Posted May 10, 2017 Author Posted May 10, 2017 yeah, the blocking on my part was to due with the no contact, removed her from my life etc, i think she did it to get back at me.
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