ribbitrabbit Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 (edited) So we've been broken up for about 8 months (she is with another guy) and now we gradually talk less and less. I'm really over her and happy. However she still contacts me like once every month - 2 months. About a month ago we had a very brief text exchange. She asked how I was doing and I responded how things were going (few sentences) and asked her how she was doing. She gave such a short reply like she didn't care that I didn't bother saying anything else. A month goes by and she calls me. I'm busy so I don't answer. I text her the next day asking what's up. Now it's been a week and no reply. I'm totally over her but wtf is she doing? Is she playing some sort of game... Is this like payback for me not calling her back that day or not replying to her last text a month ago??? I'm so confused. Is she showing me she doesn't care since I didn't call her back? Now I don't plan to call or text her because I'm not chasing that crazy woman...probably what she wants...and I'm over her but I'm just curious what you think her motives are. Edited May 10, 2017 by ribbitrabbit
Zahara Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 She comes around for attention and an ego boost. She checks in every couple of months to get validation that you're still there -- you answer and that's all she needs. She's just pulling the leash to see if her puppy dog is still there. What is your angle though in terms of staying in contact? Best to focus on your own motives and what you're getting from this. 2
d0nnivain Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 If you are broken up, why are you communicating at all? Just leave it be.
Chi townD Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 For someone that states he's over her, you seem to care A LOT about what she's thinking. Dude, just go back into NC and live your life.
Author ribbitrabbit Posted May 10, 2017 Author Posted May 10, 2017 Ok I know it seems to some of you that I still have lovey dovey feelings for her, but I don't. We have just known each other for a long time. We were friends for 10 years before dating. Then I realized she was a lunatic with depression and we broke up and went back to being friends. Ever since shes had her new bf though we just have talked less and less as I've said. Just wanted to know her angle and I think you guys nailed it on the head. Thanks all for the feedback!
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