RecentChange Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 I don't know what kind of sensitivity you and your wife have in your backs but I'm feeling like Sam Jackson in Pulp Fiction, it ain't no ballpark, a back scratch isn't foreplay or intimate. Oh gosh, I love some touching on my back, follow it with a kiss and a nibble - goose bumps and seriously turned on.
GunslingerRoland Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 Yeah? Would you scratch a guy's back? Because I sure could use a back scratch right now. I always hate that jump... I've scratched my Mom's back, and my children's backs though and it surely wasn't foreplay.
GorillaTheater Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 I always hate that jump... I've scratched my Mom's back, and my children's backs though and it surely wasn't foreplay. Just maintaining the theme, man. Tell the truth, I don't know what I think about this thread.
somanymistakes Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 Yeah? Would you scratch a guy's back? Because I sure could use a back scratch right now. I'm not a guy but as long as your back isn't sweaty and gross, I'll scratch it. Briefly. I've been on teams where we were required to give each other backrubs, it's not a big deal unless you make it one. It certainly can be very flirty and slow and lingering, but it doesn't have to be.
preraph Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 Well, this is just one big happy circle scratch, isn't it? I had a gay boyfriend who was terrified of sex (which we never had) and all he ever wanted was me to scratch his back like his mom used to do. Eww. 1
RecentChange Posted May 10, 2017 Posted May 10, 2017 I always hate that jump... I've scratched my Mom's back, and my children's backs though and it surely wasn't foreplay. It's intimate touch. These are people you are very close to. I am sure you can give your mother or your children a kiss as well, without it being sexualized. But it wouldn't be appropriate for this young man to give the little sister a kiss, nor would you be likely to give your guy friend a kiss (in North American culture at least). The relationship between people changes the dynamic. 4
Author Brieanne Posted May 15, 2017 Author Posted May 15, 2017 Just an update. Everything went great with our dinner date yesterday, and we are officially bg/gf now! So I already had a talk with my sister, and she agreed to give us our privacy when I have him over to hang out. 2
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