Author Jagged100 Posted May 24, 2017 Author Posted May 24, 2017 Every time my ex got her panties in a twist, she would try and hurt me. She would disappear knowing it would cause me to chase, ignore, and distance. One time she knew I was waiting to talk to her, and arranged to have another guy drop her off in front of me. Yup. Months after we broke up, she would send love songs about how if I was only a better man, we'd be together. It was frustrating, confusing, and painful as hell. Point is, it will only hurt as much as you let it. If you had been happy, she would talk smack. If you had been holding hands with another girl, she would have trashed you. So, who cares? A month after my ex disappeared without a trace for the last time, I went shopping with another woman. Her sister saw us, and I got bombarded about how I took another woman to "her" city and "her" mall. After she left a month prior. And broke into my home twice afterwards. And ruined an expensive meal. Yup. These women, they have a hole inside of them which can never be filled. So don't try. Writing this now makes me smile that I put up with it all for so long. Lol Bloody hell... That's quite the past there Bromeo. Makes my ex seem fairly reasonable. I agree with you, after we broke up I felt like I could finally breathe, I was so used to wrapping my life around hers I didn't know what to do with my time. She was like an emotional sponge and it was exhausting.
BryanSmiley Posted May 24, 2017 Posted May 24, 2017 It's all a game dude me and my ex play that game everyday at work where we work togetter some days she does it better some days I do....it won't mean **** in 10 yrs lol..it'll all be just a memory a faded memory for now where still healing. You played it well by not showing any emotion and never do its not worth it fake it till u make it I have a stare game with my ex at work. She always stared at me to let me know she liked me before ever meeting. Now she occasionally does it just less intensely. Then the following day she might totally ignore me and make out like I’m staring at her - when I’m just looking for a more normal brief smile/acknowledgement. It is a game and a bit of a head f isn’t it.
Author Jagged100 Posted May 24, 2017 Author Posted May 24, 2017 I have a stare game with my ex at work. She always stared at me to let me know she liked me before ever meeting. Now she occasionally does it just less intensely. Then the following day she might totally ignore me and make out like I’m staring at her - when I’m just looking for a more normal brief smile/acknowledgement. It is a game and a bit of a head f isn’t it. I would not cope seeing my ex every day. Why don't you stop with the games? Surely it gets to a point where you're tired of it?
BryanSmiley Posted May 25, 2017 Posted May 25, 2017 I would not cope seeing my ex every day. Why don't you stop with the games? Surely it gets to a point where you're tired of it? Would like to, but work with her. We kinda avoid each others floors, but on average see each other once a week in/around work. There's baby steps forwards, but it definitely sets me back a step each time.
Author Jagged100 Posted May 25, 2017 Author Posted May 25, 2017 Would like to, but work with her. We kinda avoid each others floors, but on average see each other once a week in/around work. There's baby steps forwards, but it definitely sets me back a step each time. That's pretty much what I've felt the 2 times I've seen her since we broke up. Don't know how you've done it, think I might have changed jobs. It's too difficult seeing someone you were once with and having it seem like nothing. 1
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