Fresnite Posted May 8, 2017 Posted May 8, 2017 So here is the situation. I recently got back in contact with a girl i went out with a couple times a year ago. We had two good dates, the second date i tried putting my arm around her in the theatre, she said no. At the end of the night of the second date i asked if i could kiss her, she said no. She didn't really convey she was into me either after that. The only time she ever did before hand is she said i like you because you are cool. But Not a big texter and i didn't get good signs she was interested in me, not just because she didn't kiss me but others. Well i just stopped texting her altogether and moved on after the second date. She never texted me either so i thought it was mutual. No problem, i already had another girl at the time. Ok So here is where i am at now. I texted her recently a week ago saying what's up, she asked me who this was, i reminded her. I then ask if she is seeing anyone she says yes. I'm like ok good we have small talk and everything is cool between us, a week later, which would be today. I was browsing dating apps, she has profiles on both saying she is single and looking for love. I bring it up to her and she says..... "I'm not gonna give someone the time of day who blew me off" "I'm not a rebound option" "Yes it is, i'm not stupid and i'm not looking for a relationship right now. And clearly not lol you come running back after you ended a relationship? Yeah makes sense" "Keep making excuses i moved on immediately after you stopped contacting me" "Keep telling yourself that. I really dont care what you have to say about what i did and didnt do" Ok those are all her quotes about this. I have replies in there and stuff. She thinks I'm trying to get with her just because i broke up with the other girl i went with over her. Ok first off, did i really blow her off? I didn't even think she liked me. Like besides telling me I'm cool one time, she never gave me clues or signs she was into me. Yet She kept sending Mrs these responses too... "Talk to all the girls you want. I'm not interested anymore" "I wouldnt reach out to a guy that OBVIOUSLY doesnt deserve me or give me the time of day" "You ****ed up and theres nothing left between us. Get over it" Ok i get it, but I'm trying to point out is that she did have feelings and felt something toward me. Every time ibrought that up in my replies she wouldn't deny it, only say not anymore or nothing left. .. So two things, i screwed it up the first time obviously and she is beautiful. I liked her, i just didn't think she liked me so imoved on but what the hell, apparently the feeling was mutual but she never expressed it. Ok she doesn't believe me that i liked her, she says i blew her off and let her go. That's not true. What can i do to try and win her back or prove or show her i did and maybe still do care about her? Like she doesn't believe me that i liked her then and was interested in her, she thinks i just let her go and was a jerk and "douche"
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2017 Posted May 8, 2017 You can't. This woman set boundaries about the physical aspects of a relationship. You chose not to contact her again. Now you're back. She feels like a 2nd fiddle & she has enough self respect to tell you to buzz off. Granted she was more polite about it but that's basically the message. Move on to greener pastures & date somebody who wants your arms around them & your kisses. She's not interested. 1
preraph Posted May 8, 2017 Posted May 8, 2017 God, she wouldn't even let you touch her or kiss her when you did go out, so she was never really into you. Now she's just using the convenient excuse of you being away to rub it in. But she wasn't letting you get anywhere anyway. Don't keep contacting her. She couldn't be clearer. 1
dumbass2 Posted May 9, 2017 Posted May 9, 2017 There's nothing to rekindle. She wasn't interested in you romantically then and she's made it clear she's still not, so just drop it and leave her alone. Find someone who is interested in letting you put your arm around them and kiss them. This girl is not the one. 1
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