hurtstheheartnotmind Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 My girlfriend recently acquired a t-cup chihuahua and it has replaced me. Since she's gotten it she shows me no attention. I understand that t-cups are accident prone and very easily contract problems due to their size. A few hours ago I confronted her on the matter of how she acts like she doesn't want me around because she's into the dog more than she is me. Also before this if someone else is over like a friend or her cousin I come in second place. She wont pay attention to me or show that she cares by kissing orhugging me until we're alone or after that person leaves. Even if that person has been there for weeks at a time she still puts me in second place. We recently went ona break because she feels that she wants one because I confronted her on the issue of whether or not she still wants to be with me. I told her that it hurts to see that she is picking a dog over me and that she may very well love the dog more than me. We've been together for 3+ months and she's had the dog for nearly 3+ weeks. She said that she wants to go on a break from seeing eachother, but she still wants to be with me. Just not see me. She still wants to talk online, but she doesn't want to see me for a while. We're still boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm curious to know if this should be concerning me. I fear that she may very well just want to break it off and be friends during the break. All I asked her for was maybe 5 minutes out of a 24 hour day for her to show me a little attention. She says that kissing works both ways, but I'm not going to kiss her if I don't feel like I'm wanted. All it takes is just one kiss throughout the entire day to satisfy me. I'm not very demanding. Recently I've had to start kissing her because she doesn't kiss me anymore. Some nights I don't get a kiss until she goes to bed or when I leave her house. I'm worried that maybe during this break she's going to not want me back, but in a way I want this break so that she can finally realize how great she has it with me. I'm the kind of guy who isn't very demanding. I'm not all over her. I give her space. I let her do what she wants. I'm just the kind of guy who is happy being with her, but I also need a kiss once in a while to let me know she still loves me. She said she wouldn't see other guys and that she didn't want me seeing other girls and that if she didn't love me that she would have broken it off completely. Can anyone let me know if I should be worried about her wanting to break up completely during this break? I know they say if it don't come back again, then it's meant to be. So if she does come back to me does this mean that we are meant to be?
ReluctantRomeo Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 Originally posted by hurtstheheartnotmind She said that she wants to go on a break from seeing eachother, but she still wants to be with me. Just not see me. She still wants to talk online, but she doesn't want to see me for a while. We're still boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm curious to know if this should be concerning me. Yes, you should be concerned. "Breaks" can sometimes be for reflection. Usually, however, it's someone who doesn't have the courage or integrity to break up. They want to test how life would work as a single again before actually launching out. I'm not very demanding. So you keep saying. My advice? Drop the self-pity. And stop contacting her - makes you more mysterious and interesting, takes the power back. Let her come back to you. Although she may not.
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