Am I moving on too quickly?

[ellie.nufc]

Hi guys, i'm new to all of this,

My boyfriend split up with me at the beginning of April claiming he wanted to be alone but i found out a week later he had cheated on me and was seeing someone else straight away. We were together for four and a half years and he was my first serious relationship. I've been making the most of being single by going out and having fun and decided to download tinder for a laugh with my friends. I ended up speaking to somebody on there which to be fair i already kind of knew but we've been chatting for a few weeks and i'm really enjoying getting to know the boy and hes so sweet. things with my boyfriend wasn't right since about February so it's all really nice to be speaking to someone whos so sweet. He's offered to take me on a date and things and I've said i want to take things slow anyway.

Am i moving on too fast or is this normal? i've never gone through this before so it's a really strange situation.

Thanks everyone

[preraph]

Go on a date but don't go over to his house at all. Make it clear you're not hooking up with him anytime soon. It may run him off, but whatever. Only agree to go someplace public and take your own car just in case you want to bail. Then just place your boundaries. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do just because he buys you dinner. Just be lighthearted, don't tell him your troubles, because guys really hate that when they first meet someone. They just want to laugh and have fun. Good luck.

[Maldives]

Hi guys, i'm new to all of this,

My boyfriend split up with me at the beginning of April claiming he wanted to be alone but i found out a week later he had cheated on me and was seeing someone else straight away. We were together for four and a half years and he was my first serious relationship. I've been making the most of being single by going out and having fun and decided to download tinder for a laugh with my friends. I ended up speaking to somebody on there which to be fair i already kind of knew but we've been chatting for a few weeks and i'm really enjoying getting to know the boy and hes so sweet. things with my boyfriend wasn't right since about February so it's all really nice to be speaking to someone whos so sweet. He's offered to take me on a date and things and I've said i want to take things slow anyway.

Am i moving on too fast or is this normal? i've never gone through this before so it's a really strange situation.

Thanks everyone

 

 

 

No not at all if ur not hurting wich from wat im reading it seems like ur not go for it. It's wen there's hurt and pain that's wen u shouldn't because ur not over the ex but in this case I say awesome suck **** to that aweful ex of ures and go for it and have fun these are the stories we love to hear on here good for u awesome

[Superchicken]

Tinder is NOT a local Church group bible reading app, as you know.

 

 

Please, and I strongly say it, PLEASE, just be so careful with anyone from that app.

I'm not saying this guy is a dirt bag, but rest assured, there lurking.

 

 

Just make sure you make your decisions based on you brain, and not your feelings.

 

 

Really get to know him, and see how much his willing to tell you.

 

 

Lastly, don't put all your eggs in this one basket, you need to open your horizon a little, and look for your man in many more places.

 

 

Ted

[ellie.nufc]

Thank you guys for your helpful replies, I am going and its just out for some lunch so should all be okay! Thank you all