BlueRock78 Posted May 6, 2017 Posted May 6, 2017 So I had an online/text friend for 2years in another part of the country. When we finally me there was some attraction and we ended up kissing. I then spent the weekend at hers and she seemed a bit cold from the get go then warmed up. We were meant to meet the next weekend but she called later that day and said she wasn't interested in a relationship or sex. I tried to chat to her for a few days then was told to leave ber alone. Now she has had a bad time before and has mental health issues I am used to such people so I don't care This was about 9 months ago but a few things happened lately: I had a whole day of withheld calls nearly every hour. I though just marketing but they went on until I answered at 9.30pm could just hear faint breathing for a minute then I hung up. This may be coincidence. Then I saw her in my "do you knows" on Facebook and she set her profile to a silly computer icon I drew of her. Now I had given up/put her to the back of my mind but many friends suspected the calls to be her and using a pic I gave her as a silly gift seems odd thing to do.
preraph Posted May 6, 2017 Posted May 6, 2017 She is who said she didn't want a relationship or anything, so it's kind of up to her to reach out directly to you if she has changed her mind.
smackie9 Posted May 6, 2017 Posted May 6, 2017 What you need to do is accept this thing is done. It might be a year before she contact you or never. Like the other posters told you in the other thread you posted, you need to let it go, it didn't work out, she realized you are not the person she imagined you were, and that happens with LDRs/penpal type relationships. Go make some friends and develop/build a life for yourself...that is how you meet potential GFs.
Author BlueRock78 Posted May 6, 2017 Author Posted May 6, 2017 To be honest I hadn't really paid her a great deal of mind until I had the silent saw my own handy work and thought that's a bit cheeky. I don't intend to contact her and if she's deleted my number she won't be able to contact me as I have virtually no internet footprint associated with my name. I have plenty of hobbies and meet a lot of people so I'm not betting the farm on any individual. I would say I have dated a few ladies with issues and sometimes leave me alone is a actually means for a little while not forever or is a I can't face getting burnt again. Seen it a few times when you get close not that this may be the case here. The difference being the other ladies were local and I'd bump into them or they were more forthright and would phone me to tell me off ending up in a "why didn't you call me".She however would not make a first move. The silent call is slightly amusing as never had that before. My friends all suspect that is her. I've previously found someone parked outside my house but not calls. Like I said I have a slightly skewed view as I have dealt most my life with those around me suffering from mental health issues so I am not put off " difficult women".
smackie9 Posted May 6, 2017 Posted May 6, 2017 There's a difference between people who have mental health issues and those who care not to manage it. Those who care not to manage it should be left by the roadside.
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