She really likes me; should I buy her roses?

[Galanthus]

Hi,

 

There is this girl which i have met while working in a club a couple of days ago. She came to me asking something about my job... just a random question. And i was in love in a second.... cant remeber the last time maybe 9 years ago that i had butterflies feeling.

 

So i wanted to get to know her better... but she went home. I couldn't stop thinking about her... finally ne t morning she found me on facebook and sent me a friend request and a message... that she is happy that she have found me.

 

She was very neutral in the beginning playing it hard. After 3 days and a lot of long talks... getting to know her she finally admitted that she is really into me but that we need to take it slow... and she likes me really much.

 

She said that i am the only guy in years who didnt talk about sex... or being a dick but i stead a true gentleman.

 

So in a couple of days i am going to take her out to the movies and a drink she cant wait to see me.

 

So i want to surprise her because she loves pralines and flowers... so

 

I thought is it wrong if i buy her roses... and if not which color should i get her?

 

Would i be creepy if i do that?

 

Thanks ladys

[d0nnivain]

Roses -- plural -- on a first date is over the top. A single rose would be lovely. Do not get red, again too much. I'd go with white, pink or silver (they kind of pink / kind of two tone)

 

 

Give her the flower or the candy but not both.

 

 

You don't want her to think you are trying to buy her affections.

 

 

While the old fashioned courtly notion is sweet, it can repel some women as being too forward. It's a delicate balance. Tread carefully & don't set the bar for yourself too high.

[mightycpa]

Take it slow <> send roses

 

Pay attention to what she's saying. Assume that she means it.

[Miss Spider]

Flowers sound wonderful. Just try not to overthink things.

[preraph]

It's too much. She already said she will take it slow. Going in on first date with a gift is over the top under any circumstances, much less when you know she wants to take it slow. That will scare her. Save those roses for a special occasion down the road. Just do the date. Then maybe if you make it to the third date, a single rose or a praline. Seriously, too much too soon reeks of desperation and no one finds desperation attractive.