Dente Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 I asked out a women at work but we dont work together she works in a different company and i work in another but the same building but barely see each other. She gave me her number and i texted her 2 day laters if she want to grab a coffee she said ya sounds great. I said cool lets meet at this place at this time at this day. after that she didnt reply back so i brushed it off as not interested. A week went by i have not seen or heard of her and i didnt reach out and out of the blue she texts me telling me how i been and sorry she hasnt talk to me that she was a little sick and havent feel well. I replied back and told her hope shes feeling well and glad to hear from her and if she was still interested in grabbing a bite or a drink. She said absolutely ya i then said ok great you seem really busy but let me know when your free up then we can schedule something. She said absolutely ya then i left it at that but havent heard from her. Just wait to her from her. Or just not interested?
kendahke Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 Not interested. Perhaps when she she said "absolutely ya", your reply should have been "ok--Wednesday at ______ coffee shop. Meet you there at 1p sharp". Never leave something like this open ended for this very reason. It didn't sound like you were all that interested, only feeling out her interest. When you pin down a time, they either poop or get off the pot.
smackie9 Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 She's just pacifying you. I bet money on it even if you did promptly gave her a place or time, she would have told you she would get back to you and then not do it. You shouldn't have to bend over backwards to get someone to go out with you. If it stalls, bail.
Ami1uwant Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 You tried, she didn't c9nfirm, you asked her again and she didn't follow up. The ball is in her court. Don't wait for her.
Erik30 Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 I don't think she's interested, but you handled that well. You don't have to do anything anymore, if it was just lame excuse, you'll probably never hear from her again... She might text you, it's always possible, but don't wait for her. Move on to other girls
d0nnivain Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 I said cool lets meet at this place at this time at this day. after that she didnt reply back so i brushed it off as not interested. Is there any chance that she showed up there -- at the appointed place, date & time -- as suggested by you but when you weren't there, she became uninterested? Since she never replied back that she would be there nor did she contact you & say hey I'm here, where are you, she probably didn't go there but if she did & you were the no-show I can see where she'd be cool again. Everything else being equal, I'm guessing she's not as interested as you are so yeah, I think you should move along. If she contacts you, then figure out what you want but until then, assume she's not an option.
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