monkfish79 Posted July 31, 2005 Posted July 31, 2005 Hi there, I'm looking for some help with my LDR, which until recently wasn't a LDR. I've been with my fiancee for 5 years now. We met at uni, and graduated last year, after which she got a really good job in her hometown, which is 9 hours drive from where I live. Initially, she said she would only keep the job for a year then move back, given that we're saving for a wedding. Now she's said she's going to stay for another year. When she lived here, we spent all of 4 nights apart in total, and now she's moved away, it's been pretty difficult getting used to being on my own. I've been thinking alot about moving to where she lives (she earns a hell lot more money than I do), but all my friends and family live here, and i really don't like the place she lives at all. She says she doesn't like living there either, but we need the money etc. I love her to bits, but I'm finding it difficult to decide what to do. I'd be really grateful for any thoughts you might have....
kgal Posted August 1, 2005 Posted August 1, 2005 I think it's great that you are thinking of moving there to be closer to her. The two of you should prob. just discuss all of this.. and tell her how you feel. See what she thinks about you coming there? Couldn't you guys plan out a few vacations together throughout the year? That may help too. Good Luck!!!
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