johnnybravo94 Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 Let me start by saying I'm probably the worst person when it comes to reading signals This past weekend I was talking to a coworker at work. Got to know her a bit and she seems really cool as well as super cute. We started talking about a work party that night and agreed we would see each other there. I sent her a friend request on FB and immediately she messaged me about the party and we started talking. At the party, she was messaging me if I was there as if wanting to see me. However, she is new to work and doesn't know people so I may have just been a firend. But she did bring her own friends to it as well. Anyways I was hanging out with her at the party and it was going good. I even cuddled with her in the pool and was kissing her shoulders. She didn't seem to mind but she was drunk. I got her to stay at my place but she insisted on sleeping on the couch instead of my bed (I wasn't going to try anything). Since then, she added me on Instagram, she added me on snap chat, and I got her number and we've been talking. I ty to flirt with her but she seems to almost not really acknowledge it. She also used bro and dude with me a lot but she does that to a lot of people at work. I tried asking her to go to the beach one day and she said yes, only a couple hours later to insist that we invite other people. All of this seems like friedzoning me, yet she sends me snaps of her reading stuff about orgasms and what not? I'm really confused. Any advice or guesses?
coolheadal Posted May 3, 2017 Posted May 3, 2017 You are making the most common mistake we men do. Why don't you just come out and say are we just friend or are we more than friends. Otherwise you'll sit there and dig a deeper hole for your own self-esteem. No reason to second guess here. To me she's just teasing, flirting and being playful with you. Anything more just like she's not feeling it yet with you. Might be more to this but she has the answer you seek. We are not her so remember that. Get it from her. Good luck! 1
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