Leelee808 Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 (edited) Okay so me and my ex had been dating for what would have been three years. We tried the being best friends things but it didn't work. During our times as friends he would bring up other females and was very cold towards me. I had helped him get his birth certificate so he could go to the dmv and get his permit which he now has. I also took him up to the mountains to finish his project for film. He's 18 and I'm 19 he is still in high school. Out of the girls he was talking to me and two others he ended up being with one and taking her to prom and dropped me and the other girl like we were nothing. We started off as best friend and we're close until all this now he treats me like someone he used to know. Today he came to give me my money back because he took the girl to prom because my card was still default on his lyft account. When he brought it he seemed like he wanted to say more but my best friend and parents were there. He gave me the money and then he gave me a hug but I gave him a half ass one because of everything I've been feeling mentally and emotionally. Before the prom that week I had seen him walking down the street with her holding her hand and he doesn't know I saw . I don't know what to think anymore, I'm just so tired and worn out from my first year of college we even had plans to go to school together and live together but oh well. Edited May 2, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs. ~T
Altair0770 Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 (edited) All I can say is read my thread for my advice (since its very long). Go NC. Remove him from your life. You don't need to see him dating some other girl. He also is obviously trying to get a reaction out of you. Your only reaction should be walking away and finding happiness within yourself. And, personally... DON'T EVER BE FRIENDS WITH AN EX. ESPECIALLY directly after the breakup. Edited May 2, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
PegNosePete Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 DON'T EVER BE FRIENDS WITH AN EX. ESPECIALLY directly after the breakup. Agreed, trying to be friends with an ex is a terrible idea, especially when you (clearly) still have feelings. You are going to get hurt, guaranteed.
d0nnivain Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 You sound like a caring person. However you have learned a big life lesson: You can't be friends with Exs. You need to do the following: 1. Change the credit card tied to your Lyft account. He's an honorable person that he gave you the money but don't tempt him. Change the card. 2. Recognize that it's over & move on. 3. Stop helping him 4. Throw yourself into college & all the new people you are meeting there. 5. Come up with a fun fabulous plan for summer.
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