Tressugar Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 (edited) What are the chances of a man breaking up with a woman he's in love with, but unhappy with their sexless relationship? I'm curious to know have any men been in a situation like that and what did you do about it? Will a man stay in a relationship like that? Edited May 1, 2017 by Tressugar
Blanco Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 Personally, no sex has been a symptom of other problems with the relationship. So if those can't be resolved, then no, it's time to go.
Titanll Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 Can't imagine I would stay without a seriously good reason for there being no sex.
RecentChange Posted May 1, 2017 Posted May 1, 2017 I am not a man, but no sex would send me out the door. Sex can be so much more than just sex. It's intimacy, it's feeling desired, it's sharing pleasure, it's being attentive to your partners needs, desires and fantasies. Without all of that.... I would look to fill the void. 1
umirano Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 I would first try to find out why the rs is sexless and what can be done about it. In the long run I wouldn't be happy without physical intimacy.
Popsicle Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 Will a man stay in a relationship like that? Yes, most will stay. Move on. 2
somanymistakes Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 A lot of them will stay for a long, long time. If you want to see stories from men (and women!) stuck in sexless relationships and very frustrated about it, check the dead bedrooms reddit.
Redhead14 Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 He may stay but will likely stray . . . If the relationship he is in is sexless, there are other things wrong in that relationship that are not about sex. They may simply not be compatible. It's possible to love someone without being compatible with them. Some people will stay in a relationship like this because they are afraid to be alone, it's costly to leave, there are children involved . . . a whole myriad of reasons. 1
CptInsano Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 Assuming that the relationship is really sexless, and not just a pretense on why he is seeking sex elsewhere. But yes, many relationships are sexless, but not all are necessarily unhappy. However, if somebody is feeding the OP that line it is time to move on.
zouz71 Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 I they are both LD they might survive ; when there is sexual incompatibility , I believe it is almost impossible to get rid of resentment. It is because in such a case LD is combined with selfishness and laziness . I recall a joke about a wife approaching a judge that she wants a divorce because she is in a sexless marriage ; the judge asked her : -so you have been married 10 years ; were u in a sexless marriage all the time ? -Wife : No ; he used his tongue as he has ED... -judge : ok , it was working then !why now you filed for D? Wife : he lost his tongue in an accident ! Some ppl have a tongue , but their selfishness gives them excuses ... so they won't even try to use it !
Silverstring Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 My first relationship was sexless for the last three years and I left (it was a 6 year relationship). It wasn't her fault at all, I wasn't attracted to her but really genuinely loved her as a person and we were best friends. I know I broke her heart at the time, but she moved on to a man that could love her fully in the way she deserved. 1
Miss Spider Posted May 2, 2017 Posted May 2, 2017 (edited) Men will definitely stay in relationships like that. ESP if kids involved I know ppl who have had sexless marriages where they didn't like each other and the guy didn't even stray. It's not about the lack of sex or how bad the rship is. It's about the man's morals and values Edited May 2, 2017 by Cookiesandough
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